awalterj: 1.) Don't voice an opinion about politics
2.) Don't voice an opinion about religion
3.) Stay away from the GamerGate vs SJW thread
4.) Don't create friend finding threads or "need help with Teh Wintchner 3" threads in the general forums
By categorically avoiding threads of this nature, one will generally avoid feeling annoyed and have no problems. There are plenty of awesome threads that get far too little attention (...)
Very true, all of it. There are still plenty of good threads to enjoy... yet, sometimes it happens that, while posting in a perfectly calm thread concerning a normal gaming topic, someone just reply with an equivalent of "your opinion is shit" without motivating, out of the blue.
The better way to deal with those kind of people would be to outright ignore them, yet I can see why anyone would be upset; just imagine if a random passer by on the street suddenly addresses you shouting a "fuck you" for no apparent reason. It's hard to let them be, and even if I reply as politely as I can there's a limit to everything.
In the last few months, I received several acid replies before even having the chance to start a civil discussion!
Besides, even "sensible" matters like politics and religion shouldn't fall in that pit we all know from some threads...
I guess people just don't understand that "digital life" IS "real life", as long as you are interacting with a human being, and the same rules that apply when you can physically receive a punch in the face should apply here, too.
Also:
Breja: However, with every non-asshole leaving the forum that day is probably getting closer. Don't leave! Don't let them overrun the forum!
You are right. If every decent user left, things could be nothing but worse. Want a better forum? make a better forum! :)