Posted October 22, 2014
ddickinson: [...]
I very rarely see a movie before I read the book, and almost every time the book is far superior to the movie. Not just because of time limitations on a movie, but because they often change the story and characters from the book too much. I wonder if people who see the film first tend to prefer the film more than the book?
I've done it both ways, and every single time I always prefer the book over the movie - perhaps because with the book I create my own images, voices and sounds. What I've learned from this is to watch the movie before reading the book, this way the movie feels less disappointing, I very rarely see a movie before I read the book, and almost every time the book is far superior to the movie. Not just because of time limitations on a movie, but because they often change the story and characters from the book too much. I wonder if people who see the film first tend to prefer the film more than the book?
Klumpen0815: [...]
Is there any movie adaptation that even tries to stay as close to the book as possible?
[...]
From all the movie adaptations I've watched and have read the books, I think that The Color Purple was the most faithful one. Is there any movie adaptation that even tries to stay as close to the book as possible?
[...]
Tekkaman-James: [...]
@HypersomniacLive: This was something that certainly happened in my home. My younger sisters and I would often combine our "boy toys" and "girl toys" together during our silly play sessions. This was never something I observed in the outside world though. Everything at school or at friends' houses was always much more separated. It makes me curious how that is with young kids nowadays. Is there much more blending of interests these days? I hope so.
[...]
I teach computer classes to kids in public primary schools (6-12 years old). As PCs are usually not enough for each kid to sit alone (classes often comprise of up to 20-25 kids), 2-3 kids, sometimes even 4, have to share a PC. I let them form the groups on their own. What I've noticed is that the younger kids more often than not form mixed groups. An exception to this are the timid ones that usually only feel comfortable teaming up with their one close buddy and the even shyer ones that seem to not have a close buddy at al; these two groups tend to just stand there undecided which other groups to join. As age goes up they tend to stick to their own gender (perhaps due to the early puberty stage where they "hate" each other before realising that they actually very much like and need each other ;-P). This pattern seems to extend to the play yard too, from what I've observed. @HypersomniacLive: This was something that certainly happened in my home. My younger sisters and I would often combine our "boy toys" and "girl toys" together during our silly play sessions. This was never something I observed in the outside world though. Everything at school or at friends' houses was always much more separated. It makes me curious how that is with young kids nowadays. Is there much more blending of interests these days? I hope so.
[...]
Granted, my experience is limited to a few hundred kids in total and probably can't be used as a reliable sample, but I think it can at least serve as an indication on where things stand.
Jonesy89: [...]
But yeah, attitudes about gay or bisexual men (at least here in the states) are ridiculous. When my cousin came out as gay, my mom said that it made sense since he "always was kind of a sissy", [...]
My former dentist (now retired) is gay. I used to hang out with him as we shared some interests (he's got a kid now, donated his sperm to a close friend of his), and I have to say that nth about him made it obvious that he was gay. But yeah, attitudes about gay or bisexual men (at least here in the states) are ridiculous. When my cousin came out as gay, my mom said that it made sense since he "always was kind of a sissy", [...]
OTOH, I had a classmate in high school that seemed to have a more obvious feminine side, and most wondered if he was gay, but he was nth of the sort.
So yes, it's mostly stereotyping people based on traditional male and female models/ roles/ attitudes, and I don't think it's just happening in the US.