I couldn't have said this better myself. Hopefully, this can be the cork that plugs that conversation so the thread can get back to what it was meant to be.
More on topic, I have really enjoyed reading through the posts that the "fairer gamers" have been sharing here. The one thing that has really surprised me is the amount of posts that mention having been into games since the Commodore 64 days. This leads to my preface for a question I would like to ask:
Let me first say, as we all know, that it is much more socially acceptable to be a "geek" in today's society. Talking about geeky things is a lot easier to do these days, both in a real-world setting or online. When I was a kid through the 80's and into the early 90's, geek culture was very niche and made up of a rather quiet, private
(and male-dominated) bunch. Most of the friends I made were people who I noticed as they sketched in a notebook at school lunch or sneaking a sideways glance at a comic book or a GameBoy in someone's backpack as they backed up at the end of a class. In short, being geeky wasn't something that you advertised.
Of all the times I went to a comic book store or a D&D meet-up, I never saw any girls there. Yet, now, in our much more progressive times, I always hear stories about girls who have been into comics and gaming and such their whole life. So, with all that said, I pose this question to the women here:
Where were you back then? Were you forced into even stricter silence due to the unfair stereotypes of the day? Or did our proverbial paths just never cross until now?
Disclaimer: I ask this out of sheer and honest curiosity. I am not challenging anyone's "gaming cred" or attempting to make anyone feel awkward. If you are getting that vibe, please accept my apology and do not feel forced into replying. I just want to try and bring some light-hearted conversation back into this thread. Thanks!