I'm sorry for the delay - but I have a
life and was busy on the weekend and I am not terminally online anyway so...
So as a matter of a fact - I am not sorry at all :P
But alas...
B1tF1ghter: Are you referring to an extremely xenophobic ( on multiple platforms! ) individual calling for deaths of all citizens of an entire nation?
Or are you referring to another account "definitely not an alt", with a "definitely not an open TAUNT of lack of GOG moderation" kind of nickname and a straight-outta-porno profile avatar?
:D
Neither of who are permanently banned from this giveaway you say?
^__^
Cavalary: Neither, and you know my stance on that topic.
Yes, of course,
enjoy your double standards! ^__^
https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/facebook/000/023/077/Leo_Toasting_meme_banner.jpg CarChris: from the banned person's after-ban answers and comments, one could safely surmise that he wouldn't change no matter what
Yeah - this is the thing:
An giveaway administrator ( not referring to any in particular atm ) can act like a pushover and go way
beyond what could be considered "good taste" level of benefit of a doubt - but if a banned person then goes out of their way after the ban to then unapologetically
double down on it it's safe to say the ban was rightful...
Enough is enough.
But ironically I
know there are... "some"... people in this forum, some of whom are actively participating in the giveaway, who would actively defend such a person
anyway - I wish I could say I'm surprised, but I lived long enough on this forsaken planet for this to not surprise me at all.
I'm just... dissappointed... -__-
CarChris: So, I think it's how you react to the difficult/pressured moment, that shows what kind of person you really are.
There's more to this than that. I don't know how could I possibly summarise library-loads of psychology books ( incl criminal psychology books on pathalogical and narcissistic behaviours ) so I will just do a jarring TLDR of:
" people are capable of being deceptive
more than you think ".
maestroruffy: It is just a little remark. To put the line is not an easy task, indeed you are going to make a mistake.
" indeed " ??
I did
not say anything about any past "mistakes", so I don't know what you're implying here...
I only know of
one false positive ban from the past ( not even this edition ) - and it wasn't a "mistake" nor an "accident" - it was a full blown double-standards-infused administrator powertrip of trying to silence criticism when it was due...
But alas...
maestroruffy: You have put an interesting example and it does serve as food for thought. But I do not totally agree that this line is so easy to put.
Agree? And when did I say it was "easy"? I didn't.
maestroruffy: Les Misérables (Victor Hugo)? it talks about a the struggles of ex-convict Jean Valjean, that have crossed several lines. He wasn't a good person, he didn't deserve a second opportunity. However, a priest, gave him a second opportunity saving him from being arrested and that inspired him to change his ways. Because of that, he became a force for good in the world.
This is
>> NOT << meant to offend you but...
Are you trolling?
Or are you seriously
THIS delusional to
seriously believe this is an applicable example?!
Do you
seriously believe that?
Or are you perhaps being extremely sarcastic to the point said sarcasm could be mistaken for you actually believing it??
What you cited is so
outrageously irrelevant it's not even funny. It's like SATIRE...
Like...
surely you cannot be serious...
Do you know what's wrong with your example?
Let me give you an benefit of a doubt and dumb this down for you:
Games are
not an essential good. They are
NOT necessary for life!
They are a
LUXURY, NOT a
necessity.
It's
NOT like food, water, shelter, medical necessities, sanitary necessities, bare minimum necessary clothes, etc.
Games, are a form of art and an escape from reality - like dreams, but more interactive - they are
N O T NECESSARY for life!
You may lie to us, you may lie to others, you may even lie to
yourself - but the truth is: they are >> NOT << a necessity!
NOONE is entitled to
ANYTHING in this giveaway!
Simple as that!
By giving some stranger a game in this giveaway you are
NOT saving their life ( eg saving them from death from starvation, by giving them food when in need ) - you are giving them essentially an interactive toy - a freaking
game - nothing less but also
nothing more.
This is a
game giveaway -
NOT a homeless shelter, charitable life-saving organisation, free hospital, food bank, Red Crescent / Cross free medical care, a completely unbiased good Samaritan with
zero ulterior motives, some miracle worker, an angel descended from another dimension to unbiasly heal, or anything else you could imagine.
We are dealing with GAMES here - something "nice to have" - NOT something "necessary for life"!
You DON'T need those to survive! If you do not have financial standing to buy a game yourself, then you don't buy it. You DON'T get your life situation worse. You JUST loose out on a
game! A form of interactive entertainment.
Not a
life necessity!
If you don't play a game - well that's
too bad - but it's not the end of the world, NOR would it negatively impact your life in a DIRECT way.
I repeat:
games are "nice to have" but
NOONE is entitled to ANY in this giveaway!
Comparing this
game giveaway in ANY way to Les Miserables is
a b s u r d e...
maestroruffy: For me, it was not a mistake to give a person a second opportunity. I know that this is a giveaway, I know that it's very difficult to change a person, but I prefer to have this door open. If we don't try to make a better world, we will fail
If
this is the takeway from this whole situation for you then you don't know s**t about narcissists and their deception tactics... No offence!
You will
not "change a narcissist" ( or a sociopath, or ... ) - they
won't change by LITERALLY
giving in to their demands ( eg: giving them a pile of free games for no reason at all ) - they will take advantage of your merciful weakness, they may even PRETEND to change, but they won't change.
They will abuse your generosity.
They will do things, because they see they can
get away with it.
THAT is how people like that operate.
Make no mistake - you are not "fixing" someone - you are being played...