Dzsono: There are many conflicts in forums that could easily be avoided but for the medium itself. Bereft of non-verbal cues, it's hard to tell if someone is joking, sarcastic, sad, happy, serious or surprised.
Isn't it obvious? Some people lack due respect in forums, because being far far away, they lose appreciation for the fact that you are bigger and stronger than them.
In person, they suddenly become quite agreeable :P.
Actually, I much prefer "it". It has a certain feeling of transcendence which I like.
Of thee mortal shell, shake off thy gender coils, these lowly earthly devices to multiply.
When uncertain, say "it" please!