That's the release version

Restarted GOG like 10 times (Force quit)
Even restarted the computer to rule it out.

No luck

FYI on OSX

it is STILL not showing for me ,... i started to download the EA by accident a few minutes before launch. Is itp ossible that version is trapped in a cache? if so how do i reset it?

Going to the Digital Deluxe Edition upgrade page on GOG shows as in library for me.

I had to go into task manager and close the GOG client, etc. Alternatively you could restart your PC and then log into GOG again.

I've does this even restarted my Mac,
Doesn't fix the issue.

Very frustrated, Why did we go with GOG instead of Steam again?

Lucky you... Cause I bought the game 2 years ago and nope... No upgrade for me.

https://www.gog.com/en/game/baldurs_gate_3_digital_deluxe_edition_upgrade

Have you gone there to verify it says you don't have it? Cause it shows up as my having it now.

Ehh... I understood the MAC version of the game will be released at a later date

Restart the client, it worked for me. CDN good speed also, almost finished downloading.

are people using mac the ones still not seeing the full size? maybe mac release delayed?

Yes exactly. I can buy it. Not already in my library...

Restarted GOG, Restarted my PC, no luck, still says 69gb, when i go to setting/manage install/configure there are 2 versions the old one and the new release, but it will not let me select the new version that came out 2 hours ago.

Oof, sorry to hear that. Probably just needs a few minutes to replicate out.