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You guys can always bond of the bad English of pokemon vietnamese crystal
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZ_bhwCgtXg

It is worth "acquiring" XD

On a more serious note, listen to OldFatGuy. If she says no it is not the end of the world, there are other fish in the sea. Who knows she may change her mind later. Just take things one step at a time :)
Post edited December 11, 2012 by Thunderstone
I would buy this soft foam Master Ball And write my number on it with a small message.

to use it i would initiate a battle and shout TACKLE!, good job butterfree now, to capture,then toss a masterball... and wait there saying I hope it works! and just stare at her ^_^

if she says no then say you cant its a master ball XD
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Starkrun: I would buy this soft foam Master Ball And write my number on it with a small message.

to use it i would initiate a battle and shout TACKLE!, good job butterfree now, to capture,then toss a masterball... and wait there saying I hope it works! and just stare at her ^_^

if she says no then say you cant its a master ball XD
LOL!
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Nroug7: Alright, not really the best forum to post this on, but you guys are fairly mature

Okay, So, Basically, I'm currently planning to ask a girl out and as a result of my shyness (I'm a very shy guy, Lol) I am having trouble trying to find a very direct way to do this, since she is a gamer (She's also fit, enjoys writing etc.) I was thinking of doing it through attaching a Mail to a gift pokemon and trading it to her (She plays alot of pokemon, and it was my first game when I was young ^.^) as a unique and somewhat original idea. (it probably isn't)
The other thing I'm concerned with is the location and how much physical contact I should have with her when I do ask her out and if she accepts (And that's a big IF). She is a fairly physical person and is fairly touchy. (She will nudge feet under the table etc, Don't know if that's something she only does with me but I think it's just part of her outgoing nature).
Would love to see what advice you can give to me, I'm relying on the maturity of this audience due to the userbase that exists on these forums.
Honest answers is the only answers you will get from langurmonkey.
You should just be yourself because you shouldn't want a girl who can't appreciate you for you. BUT if you only want this girl and only this girl then continue reading.

I do not think she will respond positively to this unless she is the rare type of female who likes really shy guys. Find out what type of guy she likes. If she is like most girls, you need to ask her in a way that shows her, you have confidence. You say she is also a physical person? Then you should also be physical with her when asking her out. No notes. No Pokemon. Best wishes, mate.
Post edited December 11, 2012 by langurmonkey
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Lionel212008: You can see it in a girl's eyes if she is really into you. More than anything you should feel it in your gut. Regardless, women expect that you make a move. How you ask her out is up to you............ Get creative if you like. Normal is boring.

Here are some common IOIs(Indicators of interest)

*She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build Comfort with you
*She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so
*She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)
*If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
*She smiles at you
*She stands nearby (proximity)
*She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
*While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
*She says something to her friend and they both giggle
*She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation
*While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)
*She asks you for your name
*She asks you your age (make her guess)
*She compliments you
*She is playful and tries to challenge you
*She's disagreeing but laughing
*She's punching your arm but laughing
*She uses nicknames for you
*She plays with her hair while talking to you
*When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours
*She repeatedly touches you in any way
*She asks if you have a girlfriend
*She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
*When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
*She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
*She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
*If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it
*When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
*She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
*She introduces you to friends
*She buys you a drink
*She calls you a player or a heart-breaker
*On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
*On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
*She returns your calls
*She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with you
*She will flirt with other guys and look at you just to check your reaction

Courtesy:Your friendly neighborhood sociopath : )
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Nroug7: Okay, So what I can work out from this is - She giggles near everyone, She smiles at everyone almost (Okay, She does stare at me rather intently smiling O_O Lol, But it seems to be in just a friendly way, But I should be reading it as more then that right?)
It probably means she's planning to kill you.

Yes, that's all I have to contribute. :) Hope it goes well for you, though.
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Nroug7: Alright, not really the best forum to post this on, but you guys are fairly mature

Okay, So, Basically, I'm currently planning to ask a girl out and as a result of my shyness (I'm a very shy guy, Lol) I am having trouble trying to find a very direct way to do this, since she is a gamer (She's also fit, enjoys writing etc.) I was thinking of doing it through attaching a Mail to a gift pokemon and trading it to her (She plays alot of pokemon, and it was my first game when I was young ^.^) as a unique and somewhat original idea. (it probably isn't)
The other thing I'm concerned with is the location and how much physical contact I should have with her when I do ask her out and if she accepts (And that's a big IF). She is a fairly physical person and is fairly touchy. (She will nudge feet under the table etc, Don't know if that's something she only does with me but I think it's just part of her outgoing nature).
Would love to see what advice you can give to me, I'm relying on the maturity of this audience due to the userbase that exists on these forums.
I edited my previous post.
Post edited December 11, 2012 by langurmonkey
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Nroug7: ......
I honestly think the Pokemon Idea is a good one, but so is face to face: IMO do it, but do it while your directly "there" like when you guys are hanging out or something.

secondly, as far as contact goes: shoulders works wonders. don't force the situation (that never ends well) but if you get the chance to: stand next her close enough that your shoulders / elbows / some part of the upper arm touch and talk to her.

it's affectionate, but not clingy, and personal, but not invasive, not to mention gets you into close talking range (major plus with the chickas) without the worries of blowing dinner in her face, seeming like your trying to kiss her, or getting distracted by the boobies.
Just ask her and don't worry/be nervous.
Women pick up on that. Pheromones and such...like wolves.
And just like wolves showing fear makes you an unsuitable mate. So be confident and talk to her like a person. Chicks like that.

Other than that just be normal. Every one of your ancestors managed to reproduce successfully so you've probably got a set of decent instincts(chances are if you've got an impulse in a given situation she does too. ex thinking "I should kiss her" shes probably going "he should kiss me" and if not its just a small misstep to laugh away unless you leap right to tier 15 like a fool) so just go with what you seem to get the feeling is the right thing to say or do at the time and try not to worry. unlike a scary wolf she probably won't bite you if you mess up. Remember she's a nice friendly human lady who at worst'll just say no. (And if it did come to a fight you probably outweigh her by like 50lbs with maybe 6 inches or so on her height so its unlikely you'd be in any real danger.)
So I'd say talk to her like a friend/normal person and just wing it. just ask her. You don't plan anything else and it usually works out. (She already likes you enough to spend time with you so why fix what ain't broke?) All planning does is get you so worked up over what you'd do if she declined you don't know what to say when she says yes.
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-edit...actually don't 100% wing it. Its not good to plan too much of the act of asking but you still need to come up with an activity and a day and a good idea to have a backup or 2 in case she says yes to the date in general but not to that specific one (time or activity) without offering any alternatives("sure, but I'm busy friday how about saturday instead". or "I already saw that movie how about this other one").
You're the male as well as the one asking so that counts double for having to suggest something and not be wishywashy like "hey you wanna go out we can do something if you want" say "Do you want to go out? [day rough time]? We could [see specific movie]' If you say movie have something specific to suggest. Get a rough idea of the schedule. If you say food know a place. And I can't really tell your age(I'm feeling late highschool. Old enough that liking Pokemon is a quirky but endearing trait(so highschool to 30, but the asking says nearer highschool)) so if transportation is an issue like if you share a car with siblings work that out before hand.


So tldr:
IMO(your mileage may vary) You'll need to sketch out the date before hand. Don't really plan the asking. Be flexible and wing it more than not you'll get by well enough on reflexes and instinct. Thinking just gets in the way(slippery slope to over thinking) believe me. Don't be scared of her talk to her just like anybody else.
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If you really can't tell you could maybe get away with a half step like coffee or burgers, "you wanna go grab lunch?" something you might do with a friend but still gets you and her alone so you can see what she assumed it was(hopefully she won't ask the rest of the gang to tag along but don't take it too badly if she does she may have just misread your meaning).. but its probably better just to ask straight out.
Post edited December 12, 2012 by pseudonarne
I think the Pokemon idea is extremely cool for something like asking her to prom or another once-a-year/once-a-lifetime thing with romantic undertones, but really lame for just asking her "out."

It could work as a creative valentine also if you had already developed some level of dating relationship.

Going out of your way to come up with something clever makes it seem like it's something monumental to you, which is not something you generally want when asking someone out on a date IMO. If she's thinking "Oh gosh, if I say 'yes' I'll never get rid of him" you've probably blown it.

Age 34
Jeez.... stop over thinking this and ask her out already.If you don't make a move fast then you'll probably remain constricted to the friends zone FOREVER.You just need a few IOIs and after that you only need to assume interest.

Asking her out should be easy.Since you have already established comfort with her. All you have to do is man up and talk to her. Tell her that you would like to take her out for coffee(so it sounds casual) when your discussing pokemon or whatever.




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Lionel212008: You can see it in a girl's eyes if she is really into you. More than anything you should feel it in your gut. Regardless, women expect that you make a move. How you ask her out is up to you............ Get creative if you like. Normal is boring.

Here are some common IOIs(Indicators of interest)

*She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build Comfort with you
*She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so
*She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)
*If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
*She smiles at you
*She stands nearby (proximity)
*She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
*While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
*She says something to her friend and they both giggle
*She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation
*While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)
*She asks you for your name
*She asks you your age (make her guess)
*She compliments you
*She is playful and tries to challenge you
*She's disagreeing but laughing
*She's punching your arm but laughing
*She uses nicknames for you
*She plays with her hair while talking to you
*When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours
*She repeatedly touches you in any way
*She asks if you have a girlfriend
*She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
*When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
*She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
*She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
*If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it
*When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
*She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
*She introduces you to friends
*She buys you a drink
*She calls you a player or a heart-breaker
*On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
*On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
*She returns your calls
*She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with you
*She will flirt with other guys and look at you just to check your reaction

Courtesy:Your friendly neighborhood sociopath : )
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Nroug7: Okay, So what I can work out from this is - She giggles near everyone, She smiles at everyone almost (Okay, She does stare at me rather intently smiling O_O Lol, But it seems to be in just a friendly way, But I should be reading it as more then that right?)

She legitimately is interested in some of the stuff that I do, though, somehow she obtained info that I did a review on Dragon's Dogma (She loves that game as well), She hasn't liked my facebook page where I do reviews for my friends so she has to have asked a friend for that info? Is that a possible lead?
Post edited December 12, 2012 by Lionel212008
I know! Can you sing? Learn the song "Misty" just like Johnny Mathis sings it, just like that. Have her be seated and you on your feet before her, gaze into her eyes and begin... "Look at me..."

When you are done, whatever she might have thought before will no longer matter. She will be madly in love with you. She will melt.

At this point, drop to one knee, bring out the ring and propose.

You can skip a whole lot of time and expense this way and just get right to the good part.

Come on! An attractive young woman who is fun to be with and best of all likes playing games like action games and RPGs (we'll let the pokemon slide). What is there to even think about? Just do it.
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dirtyharry50: I know! Can you sing? Learn the song "Misty" just like Johnny Mathis sings it, just like that. Have her be seated and you on your feet before her, gaze into her eyes and begin... "Look at me..."

When you are done, whatever she might have thought before will no longer matter. She will be madly in love with you. She will melt.

At this point, drop to one knee, bring out the ring and propose.

You can skip a whole lot of time and expense this way and just get right to the good part.

Come on! An attractive young woman who is fun to be with and best of all likes playing games like action games and RPGs (we'll let the pokemon slide). What is there to even think about? Just do it.
Let the pokemon slide? I don't know about you, but high level play on pokemon is relatively fun and deep, she's not the typical "AWWW PIKACHUS SO CUTE" Fan, She is more of the "I'm going to kick your ass with this pokemon here" fan. Which is entertaining.

Edit: I may have misread, but I figured you were trying to say the pokemon thing was probably just one of those rampant fangirl things that seems to be a trend (scene girls) these days. Lol

Either case, pokemon or no pokemon I'd definitely still be interested in her, For the sake she likes RPGS and action adventure titles alone. XD
Post edited December 11, 2012 by Nroug7
Naw, I'm just an old man who doesn't get pokemon but I do get action games and RPGs. :D

You gotta admit, the rest of that is a pretty good idea.
Post edited December 11, 2012 by dirtyharry50
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dirtyharry50: Naw, I'm just an old man who doesn't get pokemon but I do get action games and RPGs. :D

You gotta admit, the rest of that is a pretty good idea.
I will admit that much xD
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dirtyharry50: Naw, I'm just an old man who doesn't get pokemon but I do get action games and RPGs. :D

You gotta admit, the rest of that is a pretty good idea.
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Nroug7: I will admit that much xD
It looks like you've had plenty advice - I'm just going to wish you luck! (not that I think you'll need it, only that it can't hurt to have more of it!)