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HGiles: Oh LOL. Every year or so another one of these crops up. I'm waiting for the *really* big news, when male gamers realize that duh, lots of women play games too.
This is all well and good so long as we make very sure that the distinction is made and maintained that real men play real games like FPS games and women play girly social games that don't count and are not real games.

We get the GI Joe dolls and they get the Barbies. Let's just keep that perfectly clear and there should not be any problems.
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HGiles: Oh LOL. Every year or so another one of these crops up. I'm waiting for the *really* big news, when male gamers realize that duh, lots of women play games too.
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dirtyharry50: This is all well and good so long as we make very sure that the distinction is made and maintained that real men play real games like FPS games and women play girly social games that don't count and are not real games.

We get the GI Joe dolls and they get the Barbies. Let's just keep that perfectly clear and there should not be any problems.
LOL

Straight forward, and not an ounce of confusion in sight here.
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dirtyharry50: This is all well and good so long as we make very sure that the distinction is made and maintained that real men play real games like FPS games and women play girly social games that don't count and are not real games.

We get the GI Joe dolls and they get the Barbies. Let's just keep that perfectly clear and there should not be any problems.
But when I was a kid, real boys were not supposed to play with dolls.
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dirtyharry50: This is all well and good so long as we make very sure that the distinction is made and maintained that real men play real games like FPS games and women play girly social games that don't count and are not real games.

We get the GI Joe dolls and they get the Barbies. Let's just keep that perfectly clear and there should not be any problems.
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HypersomniacLive: But when I was a kid, real boys were not supposed to play with dolls.
You're right. That's why they are correctly called "Action Figures."

Please pardon my mistake above. I should have said, action figures.
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HypersomniacLive: But when I was a kid, real boys were not supposed to play with dolls.
Indeed they weren't, unless said dolls were Turtles or the aforementioned GI Joe. Which is why I never bought many Barbie-likes (one, I think - I still remember the clerk asking me if she should wrap it as a present, and I said "no, it's for me", after which I walked out with it, embarrassed - that was twenty-odd years ago).
I used to look after two kids, a boy and a girl. Having to share a single computer and not having anything else to do while the other was playing, they had absolutely identical interests in games. Stalker, Freedom Force, The Sims, Minecraft, Team Fortress 2, GTA 3 / 4 / Back to the Future mod, Telltale's Back to the Future (they were big fans of the movies as well), casual nonsense like Plants and Zombies, Facebook Mafia, etc. A kid's gender did not correlate to the games they chose to play when it was their turn at the keyboard at all.

(but oh my they were absolutely atrocious at Plants and Zombies; seriously, putting 300-sun hitters in front of cheapass sunflowers is a crime against mathematics)
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keeveek: edit: as for GTA... Well, Rockstar is a band of retards. I am almost 100% positive that in GTA5 most women will be portrayed as naive, stupid, slutty, annoying etc etc. I know that for sure, because even though they made 3 leads this time, there still is not a single lady among them. But well, maybe the mainstream GTA audience are retards too, because GTA5 will be a major sales hit regardless of how misogynistic their game will be. ( please ignore this side rant :P)
GTA 4 already managed to have pretty cool female characters, at least from what I've seen so far. Stereotypical 'I'm a hot and dumb chick!' has only appeared in strip clubs. It may change eventually of course, but the two major female characters so far are actually quite well realized by their own right.
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Fenixp: GTA 4 already managed to have pretty cool female characters, at least from what I've seen so far. Stereotypical 'I'm a hot and dumb chick!' has only appeared in strip clubs. It may change eventually of course, but the two major female characters so far are actually quite well realized by their own right.
Good to know, I never managed to make GTA4 work on my computer, so it's still waiting for the new one.
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Starmaker: I used to look after two kids, a boy and a girl. Having to share a single computer and not having anything else to do while the other was playing, they had absolutely identical interests in games.
As long as there is no unified, relentless and commanding voice to brainwash kids into thinking that some genres are taboo to a given gender (as playing with dolls is to boys), kids will naturally experiment, observe each other and... play.
Perhaps there is an age-milestone beyond which, say, girls are shamed into thinking that gaming isn't socially acceptable... at which point the activity will merely be something they do covertly.
This hilariously complements SV's stance: people are shaped by the world around them... but they can bypass that if they are able to make their own mind up BEFORE culture gets to them ;P.
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Vestin: snip

As long as there is no unified, relentless and commanding voice to brainwash kids into thinking that some genres are taboo to a given gender (as playing with dolls is to boys), kids will naturally experiment, observe each other and... play.
It is incredible what kids can manage to learn on their on if they are allowed to do so without constant directions. Just take a look on what Sugata Mitra did in India: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dk60sYrU2RU

It even was a young girl that took the role as a "leader" and took it upon herself to forward what she learned to the others...
Post edited August 12, 2013 by sanscript
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keeveek: I can't give you a good answer why in most games the lead is still generic white male in his thirties. Maybe industry is aferaid to change. You know, they figured out that generic male leads in their tihrties are what is a safe bet, and they are just afriad to risk their money and change.

As long as those game are keep selling well, it's gonna be hard to change.
By coincidence I was looking at Metacritic's user polls for and [url=http://www.metacritic.com/feature/best-of-2012-user-poll-results]2012 yesterday and I noticed that of the 20 games listed for each year, 16 and 13 titles respectively were sequels! Indeed, there really is no incentive to change formula.
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StingingVelvet: You're moving the goal posts and making a new argument now, which is fine. The original point of contention was that saying "50% of gamers are women" is useless unless you break that down and define what it means. You told me breaking it down was pointless. Now all of a sudden you meant they have that data from elsewhere? I'm not stupid, I know that, I was talking about THIS STUDY.

As for genres being irrelevant and only "content" mattering, I couldn't disagree more. As discussed a couple pages ago a lot of the difference between casual games and "core" games is often rooted in investment, both mental and time. That's rooted in genre, it's probably the biggest definer of the casual genre, to be honest. You could break a game like Skyrim down into two minute chunks that don't take much attention to complete but then it wouldn't be Skyrim anymore, it wouldn't be an open world RPG anymore, it would be something else. Genre is at the core of the difference between games men appreciate and women appreciate.
1. No, I'm still saying they aren't concerned with that information. Don't know what is motivating you to "misunderstand"—shall we say.

2. In your second paragraph, you claim to disagree and then explain why what I said is true. Alright, moving on.

3. Your baseless assertions are annoying as fuck so I dug up this survey from 2009 which claims 58% of casual gamers, 25% of shooters and 37% RPGers are female (of the people surveyed "the primary race is white, and the dominant age break is persons 25 to 54.") How is that useful? What are the "clear decisions" you intend to make with those stats rather than the detailed and individualized data collected from user accounts?
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gamefreak1972: the girl is talking to 2 friends about Gothic on a college campus. In her mind at least, she was in a place where who she was and what she was doing was ok. What if that scenario had ended differently? What if someone (male or female, doesn't matter) had approached her and belittled her for a hobby she loves, then told her she was a waste of space and needs to get a husband and children to make her life "worth living"?
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Vestin: First of all - I can hardly envision such a thing; Hostility (if any) and hubris usually evaporate during freshman years, turning into intellectual humility sometime into the sophomore year.
Regardless - I can fairly easily imagine "what if": I would've walked over there and strongly objected to such narrow-mindedness, silently appreciating the convenient excuse to get to know the girl better.

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gamefreak1972: Regardless of her immediate response, I bet you that conversation out in the open would never happen again...
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Vestin: Negative. That only works under the assumption that the majority is either against a given thing or indifferent to its criticism. If such an outburst had happened, it's the rude individual that would've probably never attempted it again ;P.
Have faith, people are neither that frail nor cruel.

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gamefreak1972: If I had to guess, I would bet that she isn't bad looking at all, perhaps average, but perhaps socially awkward.
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Vestin: Your guess is pretty accurate: flat-chested, lazy-eyed, poor taste in makeup, 6ft tall, fond of combat boots, shy as hell...
In my defense - I've seen plenty of significantly prettier girls before and since... Also - being a roommate can be kinda desensitizing ;P.

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gamefreak1972: Talking about something you are enthusiastic about changes a lot of people's perceptions of in an instant - I think we've all seen it where someone talks about something or someone they love and their face just "lights up" - and like magic they are more interesting, more attractive.
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Vestin: Yeah, I like to call this "Sagittarian beauty" - it's all in the smile, the motion, the gestures and... "joie de vivre".
Then again - I'm fairly certain the novelty of her even mentioning the game as a conversation piece was enough to spark attention.

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gamefreak1972: Women can be just as hostile as men can
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Vestin: I've spent most of my life among women, I can confirm this observation... Although they do tend to be more gentle towards men ;P.

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gamefreak1972: I remember woman being very upset with her daughter for being employed as a security guard, because "1) she's keeping a man from having that job and being able to support his family", and 2) "Women just don't have jobs like that!"
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Vestin: That's nothing: my grandma used to criticize my mom for carrying AN MP3 PLAYER everywhere; it's allegedly "unbecoming" and not "acting her age".

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gamefreak1972: Gender roles may be a social construct, but does that make them RIGHT?
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Vestin: Of course it doesn't. Fortunately - having been constructed in the first place, it means is that they can be CHANGED.
I can only hope life is really that different now, at least in Poland. Such self-righteous outbursts, while not exactly *common* in the states, aren't exactly rare either. I remember a SENIOR in one of my college classes going absolutely ballistic over religious issues that were none of her business (in other people's lives at any rate).

Lots of women do their best to AVOID conflict, at any cost. No matter how bold of a face she and her friends put on for an aggressor, I doubt they would have that conversation in such a public place again. People are not frail, but I do have reason to believe a fair number are indeed cruel. :(

I understand the roommate thing, there are things you overlook once someone is firmly in the "friend" box. However - your ex roommate has a great deal of raw potential there. If I were 20 years younger I would absolutely say she's cute. There are lots of us who will never make the cover of Vogue/GQ/Maxim/whatever is hot these days...but a beautiful person is much more than that. I suspect you already know that though. :)

Heh, my mother and your grandmother should get together, sounds like they have a lot in common :)
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gamefreak1972: Actually, while I wouldn't use the word "hiding" - this is exactly true. Women have been about a third of gamers...not recently, not the past few years...but for the past few DECADES - since the 1970s when it all started. Its only a big deal because for some reason someone decided to pay attention and came up with numbers they weren't expecting - and that someone happened to have a media tie.

For those of us who have been paying attention, this is not news. In fact, this is most decidedly "olds" :p And that 50% number probably does come from the "casuals" who play Farmville or Angry Birds or Words with Friends exclusively. So, 30-40% you could call a "real" gamer, and 10-20% "casual" out of the women demographic. Does that make any insecure people here feel better, knowing that the numbers they didn't know about previously haven't changed much over the years?
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Profanity: Oh hey, I accidentally hit the feminism button.

Anyway, this just circles back to the unspecificness of the article. There's so much conjecture in this thread, including mine which I somehow tried to base on logic. All the questions could be easily answered if they just say how many play what games and on what devices, it's that simple, then we'd know for sure what's really up. Now you write all these numbers again, as many other people, and I'm supposed to believe these ones?

1) Obviously the women in your example know what's up. Everyone knows that there are women who are just as much as gamers as men. Both this answer and question mean nothing. I can create an opposite example, that would mean nothing either.

2) Verbal online abuse is expected because loads of gamers are immature as fuck. You're not gonna speed up their maturity, so the only thing women can do on this point is realize that just as not all women are casuals - not all gamer dudes are dicks or white knights. Especially now that gaming is a cool thing to do. And the current most popular "feminism" (yeah, the non quotation mark feminism is long gone from the mainstream society) like to concern itself with games, it wants and sometimes does censor creative process. People can not like stuff, they can say why they're against it, but when they start fucking with how the game is being made with the threat of a PR tsunami of bandwagoning shitholes - then I have problem. I have nothing against real feminism where women are actually being opressed (middle east would be an example), I have something against the ones that think equality means dominance on their part.

3) Of course you'd do something about it, but what's the point of this question? Are you trying to pull some sort of weird move where if they think this is bad they should suddenly agree with you on other points or they're bad people? All kinds of people get nasty remarks, not only women.

EDIT: my gremmer is brkn
There's one major difference. I'm not trying to sell products, or marketing. I've been in, and watching, gaming since it started. I've watched the trends, and been personally involved. I was there listening to women in the pc lab, complaining about how they has to come up with fake names online because as soon as guys found out that they were NOT guys - it was like a feeding frenzy. I saw the complaints on women-run chat boards in the 90s. I listened to the ranting of friends who just wanted to be THEMSELVES. I still hear complaints frequently on WoW. This is a topic I have been interested in, and have followed, for many, many years. I suppose if you don't want to believe it though *shrugs* ok.

For the first question, it was only a question to ask people to define in their own minds "what is a gamer"? "What is the difference between hardcore and casual?"

For the second question - I'm not sure you understood my point. Nobody expects everyone to be "a white knight" or an "immature fuck", regardless of gender. And I disagree wholeheartedly with your assessment of "feminism". Perhaps Lithuania is further along than most counties, I don't know. But perhaps you think feminism is no longer needed anywhere outside the middle east? That's another point I would disagree with. Oppression comes in many forms. No, women in the states won't be stoned to death by relatives for an accusation of dishonoring the family...but if you think that's all there is to it, you don't understand feminism or why its still needed. And, the problem that *some* people have with *some* games is that the way women are overwhelmingly portrayed is that they are stupid weaklings who need to be rescued. Honestly, aren't people TIRED of this crap yet? We have kick ass technology, and yet we have to make our female characters as boring as possible? WHY??? You'd think, as gamers, that we would WANT deeper characters, a meaningful story...I'm not saying games need a novel of backstory, but come on!

My point to #3 being that its BECAUSE of feminism that this scenario is no longer as common as it once was. Social standards and constructs CHANGE. You think that change came easily? Yes, people get nasty remarks - but when was the last time people implied that *you* were going to be raped for what you are just for walking down a street? Or that you should be ashamed to be seen in public for your gender? People here damn feminism, but its due to feminism your mother/sister/gf doesn't have to hide in a house all damn day.
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Momo1991: Hey guys and gals, older female here and mother to a gamer guy in his 20's - and well I'm not a hard-core gamer chick but let's put that aside for a second. I'm a human being as are all of you. Stereotyping, categorizing, pigeon-holing or whatever label the media or big business uses does NOT take away our basic humanity. Right?

We all feel real feelings, we all long to connect, we all love to play and recreate in many forms. We enjoy pleasure whether that comes from food, drink, entertainment or other human beings. Right?

So why are you having this argument? Who the eff really cares whether more males love FPS and females love casual puzzle games except those with a reason to gain our hard earned cash? Right?

Ultimately I don't give a crap that games use female genres that might not reflect the full range of being female. IT IS A GAME...srsly. Those that take exception need to go live in countries where women do NOT have any semblance of freedom and take their swords and words into action helping real, live women instead of tilting at windmills in the gaming industry.

But that being said, I have actually encountered misogyny and been paid less, been treated as less, been promoted less as a result of being female through-out my work career. So while I recognize that my personal battles are real and valid, I also recognize that many, many women have it far worse than I do. Gah, my friend in the middle-east - I don't even like to think of the daily oppression she faces - and oh my dear lord, she faces it cheerfully even as she tries to change it and daily risks her life to do the work she feels she was called to do as a human being...

When, when, when are we going to let go of our genetic conditioning that kept us alive millennium ago with tribal affiliation and evolve into a global community of human beings that accept that EVERY single "person" has value to our community?

When are we going to unstop our ears and simply listen to another human being's point without judgment, without recrimination, without a filter of country, color, sex?

I, as a mother, as a female, as a human being ask each of you goglodytes to stop for a minute each time someone posts a comment and ask yourself how you'd respond if you personally had said that comment - take it to heart, see it from that viewpoint, hear it's message and then and only then, respond. Imagine the person posting was you - how would you like to be responded to?

We're each of us human beings at the end of this line -it may be an ephemeral connection but it is very effing real and each of us is very real... consider that when you post, consider that when you go to work and have to dictate to others, consider that when you eat a meal in a restaurant with someone serving you, consider that when you drive your car on the road, consider that....it's you you are treating and acting towards...human, fellow human. All other considerations fall aside in that equation....

soapbox free (so sayeth the Momo ;-p)
Sorry for 3 posts in a row, but I gotta say it:

+1, <3 you Momo! You said it way better :)
Post edited August 12, 2013 by gamefreak1972
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Darling_Jimmy: 3. Your baseless assertions are annoying as fuck so I dug up this survey from 2009 which claims 58% of casual gamers, 25% of shooters and 37% RPGers are female (of the people surveyed "the primary race is white, and the dominant age break is persons 25 to 54.") How is that useful? What are the "clear decisions" you intend to make with those stats rather than the detailed and individualized data collected from user accounts?
You can get as pissy with me as you want, all I want is information. The original problem was saying "50% of gamers are women" means nothing unless you say what that means more decisively. You told me there was was no reason to bother. I think that's silly. Of course it matters, how could it not? Gaming is not like movies, it's not the same thing from top to bottom.

Same thing with the survey you linked to. "35% of RPG players are women." Okay... what are they playing? What counts? Large generic numbers mean very little to me if half that number is thinks some generic phone game with a leveling system is an RPG. It's all about context and looking deeper at the numbers, something you seem scared to do or talk about for whatever reason.

If we're going to talk about women in gaming it seems to me like we should know what they're playing. I guess I'm crazy for wondering.

We'll never see eye to eye on this. I feel like you are extremely smug and full of yourself about it, you probably think I am X or Y insult or whatever as well. So we should just stop.