zeogold: As far as racism goes, I'm specifically talking about slurs here.
Dalthnock: Well, I'm of the opinion that nobody should give any importance to slurs.
This is one of the things that you have to *teach* people to be offended at.
More importantly, if no one pays any attention to a person outraged by a slur, that person will eventually stop caring about it.
Look, grown ups are just children with no parental supervision. The same rules apply. If you just casually dismiss most of their bullshit, they'll stop creating a fuss over every little thing.
Please call me cracker, or cracka or honkey all you want. If somebody tells me I'm blinding them with my whiteness, I don't get mad - I just tan harder!
Isn't it time to stop being so divisive?
Here's the thing:
Suppose that, for years, people have been calling you "fag" as an insult while bullying you. This experience is very likely to color your view of that particular term.
Now, imaging if people started calling you "fag" on the forums. Wouldn't that bother you in that case?
Another thing I should point out: A person's name is an important part of that person's identity. By calling that person a name that person does not wish to be called, you are disrespecting the person's identity, and are therefore disrespecting the person.
Just because you are okay with being called $SLUR doesn't mean that other people would be.
(The only way to be sure that something is OK is to explicitly ask the person you're referring to.)