Crackpot.756: Not
the reason, but
a reason, if you're certain you'll be spending the rest of your life or, since marriage isn't even sacred anymore, a considerable amount of time, with your current partner.
Nah, but the whole white dress/tuxedo ceremony thing with the music and the flowers and the vowing ... Gee, I thought I was cynical. :p
dtgreene: Well, one can choose to not follow those traditions when planning your wedding.
For example, it is not that unusual for lesbians to wear tuxedos in their weddings, but it is not universal. Sometimes, both women choose to wear wedding dresses. (Now, if only men would start wearing wedding dresses to their weddings...)
Alternatively, sometimes weddings are done with more casual attire. For example, if the wedding is outdoors on a hot day, formal wear would be uncomfortably hot.
There are other possibilities, as well.
(Also, the "man and wife" pronouncement doesn't work as is for same sex weddings.)
Isn't it kinda silly and ironic to adopt traditional elements of a traditionally heterosexual ritual one is refusing anyway?
Why is there a need to copy rites of the "traditional state sanctioned family"-guys at all if one is not part of it?
It's like not liking what one is and trying to compensate by imitating others.