Vestin: I think you're underestimating human defiance. At worst there are two kinds of people - ones who, when exposed to those around them saying "would of", will start saying it themselves, and the others who will (with ever increasing frustration) remind everyone that 'of' is not a verb. The former might live happier, healthier, less stressful lives, but the latter actually DESERVE them ;P.
I think individuals are not THAT strong. Put a high enough amount of long-term pear-pressure and I'd say most, perhaps every, person will cave to various degrees.
Some individuals are stronger than others, but there is a HUGE part of ourselves that isn't rational and that doesn't operate on a rational level.
Intuition, for example, which we are dependant on to generate ideas is a very irrational process.
Being rational most of the time takes an significant amount of will, no matter who you are.
Consistent rational thinking is not part of our nature, in part because it's not efficient a lot of the time. For example, if you're a caveman and see an unfamiliar animal approaching, you don't have the time (nor the infrastructure) to sit down and do a scientific study on it. You need to quickly decide, based on an intuitive impression, whether it's a threat and if it is, whether to fight or to run.
Neo-conservatives have understood that for some time and have become quite adept at appealing to the irrational part of our mind. For example, they have long understood that you can spread complete BS and be credible as long as you provide the proper cues that identifies you are someone that is trustworthy and who knows what he's talking about. And you know what? It works to a degree. I see some neo-con utter complete non-sense in a charismatic way and part of my brain goes "boy, this guy looks smart... look how assertive he is... the tone, posture, etc... he must know what he's talking about". And quite frankly, it frightens me to see someone utter complete BS in such a convincing manner, because I know how irrational we are.
LiquidOxygen80: Here's the problem with that line of thinking. There isn't some huge pervasive theocracy everywhere in this country. You also have to remember that big movie studios make their decisions based on one overlying tenet. Money. There's automatically less money in an R rated movie that talks about sexuality, because straight out the gate, that guarantees that no one under 17 or maybe 18 is going to see your movie. A big studio takes a look at PG movies, because their target audience is pretty much EVERYONE. Therefore, more kids will push more parents to take them to see that new Pixar or Dreamworks movie, and for each happy little rugrat, there's price of admission and candy, probably soda and popcorn.
Point taken, sales have also something to do with it.
LiquidOxygen80: If you wanted to say there's a problem with the ratings process, for sure! There's two church reps in the ratings board, which is a fucking farce. That said, it's a direct result of Bible Belt censorship attempts back during the morality crusades in the 50s. That said, it STILL didn't stop the porno chic era in the 70s, with movies like Deep Throat, Devil in Miss Jones, and many others, from not only being made, but being shown.
And yet, I find it also illustrates this weird contrast in the U.S.
In the area where I live, we are essentially a bunch lapsed Catholics (or children and grand-children of lapsed Catholics) and there is a strong Atheistic (or Agnostic with Atheistic tendencies) counter-current running as a reaction to how the church was.
I see a similar thing in what you are describing where you go the theocracy on one side and porn on the other. I think either side over-focuses on sex (obviously, in different ways).
LiquidOxygen80: The Bible belt IS a real thing and put pressure on physical media all the time, but let's be frank. Hollywood =/= The Internet. Physical news and media =/= gaming/entertainment websites. It's a false dichotomy to say that it's either about the sex or we don't care otherwise. Obviously, a shitstorm of this magnitude has been brewing for awhile, otherwise this story would have blown over days ago.
I still think there is an influence and cross-pollination between both groups as they don't exist in a vacuum.
Also, I don't think Americans wouldn't care about anything otherwise, it's just that they'll make a bigger fuss about it if there's sex in it.