TStael: [1] The issue with Tomb Rider etc is with the gaming genre. Gothic unto Risen series - male hero only. Two Worlds - male hero only. The Witcher (minus Dethmold) - male hero only. I like!
[2] You seem to wish to frame potential / eventual LGBT gamers, plus those who are their supporters, as "entitlement" crazy little freaks, whining away and trying to make gaming ... unnaturally ... diverse. When in fact, they could make gaming a better place if only they would subscribe into the standard hetero white norm, eh!
[3] But this is just a little more than hypocritical, I find. If all of us enjoy gaming, what is it away from you? Tell me, pray, so I might understand.
[4] "Rust" - ring a bell, eh, 011284mm?
If you follow gaming news, you must know the fact that gamers being randomly given a race based on Steam ID caused a lot of whimpering: "I am not a racist, but really... what the fouk, I must play as black! I wanna select my race!"
Why do you think these complaints were raised?
[4.1] I am fairly sure you did not go forth to tell those people to get on with it - because you struggle to understand why some might not enjoy their random raced CHAR, or? ;-)
1 - Okay, so I am to understand that you do not like Tomb Raider or Uncharted because of the genre. That is fine, so you did kind of answer my first question (which you cut from your response). Yet to make sure we are on the same page;
Your answer would be that - you can play as a fixed race/sex if the games story and gameplay are good enough to make these factors irrelevant. Yes?
2 - Nope. I could care less about someone elses personal frame of mind and ideology, and I do try hard to be as neutral as I can. As long as it does not bother me I have no reason to get or be bothered.
I also do not ask that people subscribe to any standard or "norm". In fact the internet is the best place to leave everything behind. You and I know nothing about one another on initial contact, and only learn about each other from what we decide to put forth or investigate about the other. We then in our own minds build up an image of what we expect of the other from this information and personal expectations.
It is our own pre-expectations of people that are thrust onto people we meet on the internet, which often then says quite a lot about someone by the way they expect others to behave.
I have never asked that people subscribe to my way of thinking, that would be madness, as there would never be anyone to talk with. I even stated in my first post in this thread:
"[I]f you still cannot find a game for you out there, then make it. "
I said this because I really do believe that having games with LGBTQQIAAP people in them is fine. Just make them good characters. I do not want to be playing a game to find there are token characters to please certain groups, that is pathetic. Worse still it is insulting, not only to them, but the players of the game too.
Make a good game, with a good story and good characters and I am there with you to play it. I do not care who I play or what they look like, just make my time enjoyable.
I also wish to see LGBTQQIAAP people in sexual situations as much as I see everyone else = NEVER. As odd as it maybe for some people, I quite frankly feel nothing at seeing sex in games. I am put off Fahrenheit, not because of poor controls, but a poor and apparently unnecessary included sex mini game. Yes when playing GTA 3-SA I sometimes use the prostitutes, but just because of their in game function. To me, those collections of polygons mean less to me then the little heath pick-ups, as they require more time and effort for the same outcome. And they steal my money.
3 - Tell me when I said you could NOT enjoy gaming. I have said gaming is an all encompassing past time, I welcome everyone and even suggest that people make the games that they feel are missing from the world to make it better. What I also say, is stop bitching. If you do not like something someone else made go and make your own games with what you want in them. People need to stop saying something is wrong without being willing to do something about it.
When I do not feel like a game is of any interest to me (Hyiku Boyfriend), I will not go out of my way to buy it. Should I buy a game (Gone Home) I give it a fair chance and when / if I do not like it, I just stop playing it and move on.
I do not complain that it was not fitting my desires in a game and want it changed. I just move on.
Lets face it a lot of people out there enjoyed Gone Home, so why should I ruin their fun? You enjoyed Risen 2, I even said I was glad that someone out there had enjoyed it, because I found the game so off putting.
I never, ever, said that you could not play a game. I would never say that.
4 - Rust did not ring any bells. I do remember a game where people were complaining that they had been given selected skins to play as based on their Steam ID.
I still think those who whined were being pathetic, but not because of the skin colours. I think that they were trying to force the game developers into accepting what the players wanted against what the developers wanted for the game.
Basically the same reason I bash on these sudo-rights going about now. It still falls into the same vein for me.
If you do not like a game, do not play it and make your own sodding game. Goes for those whingebags too.
I still feel that games should be developed by the development company for what they want to design and want to build with a good story, gameplay and experience for the audience. That audience does not always include you or me, and sometimes neither of us.
4.1 - Nope. As I do not remember those morons taking up pages and pages of GOG forums. I do believe that it was dealt with in game. I also believe that the developers banned them from playing. Which I do not agree with, unless the players got a refund. As then this was the developers pushing their ideology onto others which as I am sure you can guess, I do not think is right.
Anyway, now I have answered all you asked. You forgot to answer my second question.
"For me I struggle when people say that they can only play as female/queer/LGBT/black/asia/other in a game.
I try to wonder how they got into gaming and what games they can play. I also fear that these people miss out on some real gems because of these problems. "
Would you be so kind as to answer?