Okay, let me take a look at what I have. Be back shortly.
Edit:
My file size is 6,518,272 bytes (NOT size on disk), also identified as version 1.0.0.0 (how in the world does THAT work? LOL). BTW, I'm getting that info from right click -> properties on the executable. The version on the game's launch screen shows 1.153.
To fix the problem I had (Steam on the retail disk), I downloaded the complete game file (615,036,714 bytes) on 05 August 2012 from taleworlds.com, and it looks like this is the version still available on their site; note that I did not get the patch, but instead the full installer zip.
Maybe try this link, in case you're getting a different version somehow:
http://download2.taleworlds.com/mb_warband_setup_1153.exe I just DL'd again and got the same zip as last time.
But yeah, Steam isn't nagging me at all (it used to, until I reinstalled and then changed the shortcut), Steam is definitely no longer installed, and the game works. Not sure why you and I are seeing differing results.