Posted February 12, 2015

adaliabooks
"Vell, Zaphod's just zis guy, you know?"
Registered: Jun 2013
From United Kingdom

l0rdtr3k
Serial Hugger
Registered: Oct 2011
From Brazil

toxicTom
Big Daddy
Registered: Feb 2009
From Germany

HypersomniacLive
The Reluctant Voter
Registered: Sep 2011
From Vatican City
Posted February 12, 2015

Sorry, I did not mean to imply she was not smiling through it all before. But just remember that people often hide behind false smiles, so you be sure to be there for her just in case. I used to put on a brave face after my attack, so did my grandmother when she was ill. It's easier to show a smile than a frown when you are low or ill. It's not nice to worry people and it saves a lot of questions when you smile compared to when you frown. I'm not trying to imply this is what your friend is doing, just what I have done and others I have know have done. But like I said, be sure to be there for her, just in case that smile is covering something more painful. A nice hug can mean so much when someone is having a bad day.
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And of course her smile is much more genuine now than before, it's the smile of relief that a step forward was taken and things are finally looking up, it's the same I had after I had my surgery, so I recognise it only too well.
I hug every time I see her, for comfort when she's having a bad day, for celebration when she's having a good one.

toxicTom
Big Daddy
Registered: Feb 2009
From Germany

HypersomniacLive
The Reluctant Voter
Registered: Sep 2011
From Vatican City
Posted February 12, 2015
Well, the doctors are optimistic (they even ruled out the tumour being malignant) and so are we all, as open brain surgery won't help her, and will likely do damage to a number of nerves, if she survives it (their words).

ddickinson
Battle Sister
Registered: Feb 2014
From United Kingdom
Posted February 12, 2015
I know you have, and I was not trying to imply you did not know what to look for. But you should also know that people do still keep things secret, and that they often hide things to not worry other people. It sounds like your friend is not like that, and it's great that you two are so close. But I do not know your friend, so I was just speaking more generally. I know I am not always the best at expressing what I actually mean, so I'm sorry if what I said annoyed you or you thought I was trying to imply something.

EndreWhiteMane
Get off my lawn!
Registered: Sep 2011
From United States
Posted February 12, 2015
Since you guys are being so serious in here today I thought I'd do a little studying this afternoon.

ddickinson
Battle Sister
Registered: Feb 2014
From United Kingdom

EndreWhiteMane
Get off my lawn!
Registered: Sep 2011
From United States
Posted February 12, 2015
Actually hasn't been one of my better days but that's life. Feeling a bit better now and figured I'd joke around a little. ;)

swatkat
Razor Clawson
Registered: Dec 2014
From United Kingdom
Posted February 12, 2015
low rated
dd knows how to yak:-)

ddickinson
Battle Sister
Registered: Feb 2014
From United Kingdom
Posted February 12, 2015

I saw a picture of you online earlier. I think it's a good likeness, and it's definitely a rugby fan. :-)
http://static.ipaustralia.com.au/store3/11/43/1143475.1.high.jpg

swatkat
Razor Clawson
Registered: Dec 2014
From United Kingdom
Posted February 12, 2015
low rated



http://static.ipaustralia.com.au/store3/11/43/1143475.1.high.jpg

ddickinson
Battle Sister
Registered: Feb 2014
From United Kingdom

EndreWhiteMane
Get off my lawn!
Registered: Sep 2011
From United States
Posted February 12, 2015

