Thanks again for the supportive posts, it may seem insignificant and simple but trust me, it means something to me.
budejovice: Very sorry to hear of your parents' health troubles, Ragnarblackmane. One illness is bad, two together is too much.
Is your mom getting slowly better? Did they find evidence of MRSA?
I'm glad your dad is at a better place than he had been. So many nursing homes here really are hellholes. My dad took his first few whiffs of the place where my now deceased grandmother had been placed by her other kids and got her out of there. My most recent ex is a social worker who worked in a bunch of nursing homes (now at a hospital) and she walked out of several before an interview even took place. At least he's hopefully not in much pain. Don't worry about any stress you may have caused him - you have plenty on your plate right now without adding guilt.
And always remember that the regulars in this thread (the real regulars, wish I qualified) are a caring, non-judgmental source of comfort when all you need is an ear. Or a virtual hug.
Thankfully NO MRSA, but of course I'm still on the watch.
The place has really good feedback from a family friend and gets consistently high praise from the staff of the hospital my dad was in, plus judging by my time spent there tonight there are lots of cute nurses.My dad is a gentleman who would never cheat on my mom even if he stopped loving her but there's no harm in looking, maybe it will even help his recovery process:)
I'm sorry to learn you went through a similar experience yourself, the way that the US views the elderly in general has always ashamed me.
CarrionCrow: If you're a decent person? You qualify. =)
I really do hate that "regular" title. Some people end up using it as some sort of superiority, when in actuality all it means is that a person has a place that they go to frequently.
I'm a "regular" at the local convenience store. Doesn't mean I get to cut in line, curse at other customers and get free stuff sometimes.
On the one hand, I am sometimes defensive of being a "veteran" of some places or communities, but usually so that I can act as a guide of sorts to new people. On the other hand, I hate elitism, even though I've fallen prey to it myself from time to time.
For now, I'm calling it a night. Thanks for the kindness all, cheers.