Ragnarblackmane: Not really, I posted here awhile ago about my father being in the hospital and his situation hardly improving, he spent some weeks at one of the worst rehab/old folk's homes I've ever heard of or seen(note to self:Die before I let someone put me in such a hole) then was moved back to the hospital after suffering bedsores and for a biopsy. Well, the doctor who performed the biopsy, despite having a "stellar reputation" managed to mash down nerves near his spine which caused numbness and eventually excruciating pain in his right leg. He's being taken over to a different rehab center soon,either this evening or tomorrow morning.
Meanwhile starting at about Sunday morning at 3am my mom got flu-like symptoms and luckily I was staying over so was able to take care of her. We were hopeful it was just a 24 hour bug but she became ill again sometime yesterday, went to the doctor today to see if she had mursa which she might have gotten from visiting my dad in the hospital and spending most of her days there, then got sent to get a test for blood clots in her leg, but luckily they didn't find proof of that.
It's been a hellish few days.
Just got home from visiting my dad.My mom insisted on going despite having intense pain and other unpleasant health issues, so I drove us in spite of misgivings.
The new rehab center seems a lot nicer,newer, and cleaner than the other place. My dad was really out of it when we arrived, they had just settled him in and he was still on a painkiller cocktail.The worst part is that my mom and I bickered over some trivial nonsense about the paperwork and errata which obviously put stress on my dad. I felt terrible and I'm sure she does but lately our relationship has been adversarial, we're a lot alike and deal with stress the same way.
Thanks to endre, lordtrek,adalia, and LaPtiteBete for the hugs and concern. I often don't like discussing my problems here because I figure "who cares, who should care, everyone else has things going on in their lives" and I trust very few people with these things normally. Lately, though, that faith has been shaken.