I am playing a Tremere with the Unofficial Patch Plus v9.5

I made Heather Poe my ghoul, and welcomed her in front of the LaCroix building. However, she never showed up at my haven in Santa Monica. I figured that I might have to upgrade my haven first, so I did the Gargoyle quest and got the special Tremere haven. I even asked Strauss, and he said that my ghoul would be welcome. However, she has never showed up there, either.

I've been checking both locations frequently to see if she would show up, but so far nothing. I'm currently doing the Snuff is Enough quest.

Does she only show up at certain times? Is there a console command to get her to respawn or something? Is this a known bug? Any other thoughts?

Thanks.

If she didn't turn up right away, something went wrong. Check G.Heather_Haven in the console. If it's not 1 type G.Heather_Haven 1. If it is 1 already or if you set it to 1 and she still isn't there, something wwent seriously wrong with your installation.

Heather should IMMEDIATELY appear in haven, after you tell her to go there, outside the prince's tower. Or at least right after you talk to the prince and undertake the new quest. If not, i hope you kept a previous saved game...

I have NEVER encountered ANY problem with her, not even in 1.2 vanilla. Also, she normally appears in each and every different haven you might get (Nosferatu sewer, Tremere chantry, downtown apartments, santa monica)...

Find a previous saved game (autosaves are many and frequent) and try again. Also, remember to visit her before ending and after starting, a main quest's new phase (example: Before going to the museum, right after returning, then after talking to the prince, etc). You have to interact with her a lot and always be kind and compassionate (because this way she rewards you with a great end-game item). Too bad though, i wanted this girl for wife, but alas she doesn't make it... ONE person in the entire game seemed to genuinely like us and we cannot even stay with her forever... (VV doesn't count, the only thing she actually loves is herself and only)

P.S. Don't forget to check in haven't TOILET, too. Sometimes she can be found indoors in haven (for me, once, she was inside bedroom of downtown apartments, had to open the door to see her).

---- some people think Heather killed her parents based on her hesitation and body language when asked about it.

Thanks for the help. G.Heather_Haven is set to 1 already. I guess this save is FUBAR :\

Okay, then try this in the console while you're on the haven map:
heather = Find("Heather")
heather.ScriptUnhide()