Well I finally got my multiplayer key/exe today, tried to join a friends game/town but I do not see him in any towns and apparently through vent chat, found out I do not have any server selection after choosing network game, it goes straight to connecting to whatever the hell server I am going to, any help would be great!
*Edit*
Just found out the game is apparently forcing me to the european server but like I said I have NO control over the server I join nor did I have any knowledge I was on the euro server until he said it on vent.