Opened a support ticket w/GOG, and received this information. None of it helped me, but might help you. Both my machines are on the same local network and neither have the firewall enabled, yet I can't join a locally hosted game regardless what machine hosts it, even if I use the local IP address (which is not what the host game shows--it shows my network's external IP)
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1. Please use the local IP address:
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Your-IP-Address-on-a-Mac 2. Please make sure that both computers are connected to the same local network.
3. Please make sure that the game is not blocked by the firewall:
https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201642 4. Please also try contacting the official support for the game here:
spacegame2012@gmail.com