The thing about bigoted ideologues is that their ideologies don't stand up to real world scrutiny. This is what makes them bigots, as opposed to "objectively correct." And when their ideologies go up in smoke, they usually fall back on human tribalist instincts - such as rank-and-file feminists justifying a mass attack on women's agency, just because those women used that agency to earn money by being physically attractive, rather than questioning feminism itself. Or everything involving history's recount of Erin Pizzey, or the Suffragettes.
The only thing that surprised me about Ad Avis after I'd played the story is that Katrina wasn't the reason he ended up this way. It would have made perfect sense for the supposed woman hater to hate women becaue a woman ruined his life, with the extra catch that not even death will help.
IIRC, it's made clear that the vast majority of harem girls in Rasier actually enjoy the harem. It's cretins like Ad Avis and Khaveen they don't like. I didn't play a Thief and have no willingness to, so I might be wrong. Perhaps I should climb into the Thief route on my Wizard playthrough if I do one - I think it's skills, not class. I don't blame them. The men, by comparison, do have it a lot worse by many metrics (at least as far as the hero/Ego/Devon sees) being subject to horrors like castration and conscription. (Things like castration are admittedly less harmful in a setting where healers can regenerate lost limbs though) but we don't know what things were like in Rasier, other than Generic Totalitarian State.
So, perhaps Ad Avis did hate women, but also failed to understand how anyone other than himself thought, and ended up accidentally privileging most women in Rasier over most men by keeping them safe in harems rather than sending them to die in the guard.
Post edited February 05, 2018 by N7Kopper