I just got the game a while ago and tryed the online . it lags alot tho even when theres only like 3 people in a server . Is it the game , the server , there anyway to fix it ? and i use vista 64 bit if that helps

A little late, but what the hell
You have the same problem I do. Its because alot of the busy servers are to far away from us so we get a very high ping which causes us to lag. The actual runningwiths servers are dont seem to have very much lag when you can find people playing it. Hope this helps.