i honestly cant figure out how 2 cast it. i somehow managed to cast it once by using the wheel. im trying 2 cast it again, however, using the wheel n it doesnt show up. in fact, only four spells show up in the wheel even though ive memorized a lot more.

1) Use the radial menu of your mage, which would either be Dakkon, Ignus (I hate that guy! He smells!), or your TNO.

2) Click the arrows at the bottom (one going left, the other going right), until you see the 'Friends' spell icon.

bladeofbg, please announce the fact before posting spoilers

Gotcha. Edited my post.