What level were you guys when at the end of the game? Just wanting to see how I'm doing.

Depending on how you play, you can beat the game without killing anyone after you escape the prison. So I guess that the level varies according one's playstyle.

By the way, I had not finished the game yet so I cannot give you a more accurate answer ;)

My character was about level 60 at the end since I had some fun fighting respawns. But for playing normally level 14 is more realistic.

It depends somewhat on how heavily you've invested levels in your "off" classes, and how much time you spent killing respawns, how many people are in your party, and how many quests you did. You should probably be near level 20 when you leave for the Final Dungeon of Ultimate Doom if you want an easier time fighting all the shadows. You can do it at a lower level, but if you get swarmed you may be in trouble.