DSledge: I'm guessing the game will be pretty long. For me at least. I usually don't play through a game more than once, so in my first playthrough, I try and do every side quest I come across, as I come across them. That way I don't end up hours and hours into the game, and have like 30 side quests that I haven't done. Although I don't really spend much time reading through the books you come across, and I don't really read the stories from all the kinda random NPCs that you can see into their souls.
I've put in just under 21 hours according to my game save. I only just hit level 5, I've just left the first big city (though I'm sure there's some side quests there that I didn't happen to just stumble across, which I'll end up searching for.) I haven't stepped foot into the endless dungeon thing yet, and have barely upgraded my keep. 21 hours is a good chunk of time spent, and honestly I feel like I've only scratched the surface.
I take my time and try to do it all, as well.
Only difference is that I also read the books. ;-)