alcaray: "you start to dread meeting them again because you pretty much do not gain anything from the combat"
Have you played so much you've actually encountered this effect? I'm not sure it will even come up, depending on the design. Are you "borrowing trouble" here?
Yes I have played enough to have encountered this effect and I have killed ALOT without gaining any exp.
alcaray: "Specially given that you need to rest alot in this game and for that you need kindlings or constant travel to an inn or the keep."
Again, I'm only on the 4th map-screen, but I've only rested twice. If I'd tried harder to conserve, I think I could do it on one rest. And I'm playing on hard and with a squishy MC.
Yeah that was the same for me.
alcaray: "But as stated this is my opinion, I do not care much for these kind of gameplay mechanics, it feels like I am being forced to play a specific way and options are limited. So far into the game it has been more of a frustration than enjoyment for me."
If by "specific way" you mean that the quests force you to follow the story they want to tell, then yes, it very much is "that" kind of game. It would be a waste to pay for all that voice acting and have you guys bypass all those encounters. It was always described as a game with a story to tell. It was never described as open-world or sand box.
No, that is not what I mean, just because a game has a story and is story driven does not mean it has to be played a specific way.
alcaray: "And yes I do feel like there is not enough XP to be earned because of this, also the xp for killing monsters is ridiculously small."
It looks as if I will hit third level when I leave this 4th screen. I think you are wrong here.
Well if it is good for you then you know, good for you.
As I stated this is my opinion based on how I percieve the game from my previous gaming experiences, and for me it is a very "meh" experience so far. Having said that, it does not mean it is like that for everyone, this is how it is for me, if it is not like this for you then great for you, but this is how this game is for me and thus it sucks for me.