Just an FYI, but if you have problems with kingdom management, I have found what I consider to be the best possible way to
a). relieve yourself of the burden of kingdom management
b). eliminate any chance of your game ending due to kingdom failure
Auto kind of stinks. It mismanages a lot of things and can easily bring your kingdom stats into negatives, if you can believe it. You will never fail due to Auto mode's idiocy in 2.0.8, but it's still annoying. It's not clear why Auto struggles so much. I can report that your kingdom can spend a lot of time at "crumbling" without anything failing. The only way it will fall (I think) is if you leave certain things undone for too long. Things you have to take care of "in person".
If you do not want Auto to do such a bad job, you can get a mod called Kingdom Resolution. I tested it with Auto and it works! Reduce the completion time for everything to 1 day, reduce BP costs to 1%, and set DCs to -100 so even braindead Auto can't botch it. Viola! Auto mode will actually assign advisors, rank up stats, complete projects, annex land, and build/upgrade villages like its supposed to. I think the only thing you'll miss out on will be teleportation services. Which is a shame, but it's livable.
If you have not used Auto before, you still have to interact with the management table and "wait for the next event" for it to do anything. But with Kingdom Resolution, it finally will stop embarassing itself, and you can get down to the business of playing the better parts of the game.