jfs313: Major thanks to Bookwyrm627 and macAilpin for answering all of my questions so far. A few basic other quick ones popped up that I was wondering if someone could help me with.
I've added some more answers to that thread. As for this one, matters arising:
A second weapon in the other hand is not as good as it should be (slows the character down, is what I read, unlike in MM7 or MM8). Fixing this is reason enough to find and install Grayface's patch.
Protection is good, but starting out, go for helmets, gloves, boots and cloaks first. No skill needed (saving money), and they don't slow the characters' attacks.
P.S. I've always downloaded and used GoG's offline installers. From what I read in these forums, GoG Galaxy does not like unofficial mods and patches (like Grayface's) and tries to put things back the way it had them. Though perhaps there is an option to restrain it.