Anyone have any tips on how to get multiplayer working better. it uses gamespy lobby system and a friend of mine has trouble with it. like i'll be able to see games he creates but he can't see games I create.

we tried direct IP connection but it doesn't want to join, it just times out. it seems like this might be something that may need to be port forwarded or something done with my router to allow game hosting but I can't find any info on the net about it. anyone know what ports are being used or any tricks for better multiplayer connectivity.

our game spy lobby games seem to have a tendency to loose connection at some point during the match.

Any advise would be helpful.

If you are behind a router you have to forward the ports to use direct ip.

Use TCPView to find which ports Haegemonia uses.