charbon: I'm mostly interested in Gothic 3 but will I miss a lot, story-wise, if I haven't played the first 2 games ?
You'll miss some, not a lot. You don't HAVE to play the first games, but they can make you feel more connected to G3 and enjoy it more.
You sound like you're not that interested in 1 or 2, and I'm guessing that's because you don't like how the games look. 1 and 2 are long games, and will take a lot of time to finish each. If the games look too old to you and you don't think you'll enjoy them, then by all means skip them.
For me, I've found that playing games I didn't like just for the small amount of lore I would get, was never worth it. Games should feel fun, not like work.
With that said, I personally love 1 and 2, and have replayed them a few times. I also played them when they were new, and don't care much about game graphics. Watch some Lets Plays for 1 and see if make you want to play, or turn you off.
If you have the time and energy, I think they're very good games and you should play them. If you don't, then skip them.