Sydius: Okay, long story short:
The time when the original Gothic 3 came out it was a bad game - it had a lot of bugs, some bad gameplay elements, etc. The community patch solved most of these problems, making Gothic 3 into a good game.
The problems were in the engine, the story/setting was OK.
The time when the original Forsaken Gods came out it was a terrible game - it had more bugs than the previous 4 (3+1) Gothic games (okay, maybe a little less...) and the gameplay was awful. The community patch solved most of these problems, making Forsaken Gods into a nearly-bug free, awful game.
The problem is the game itself.
But it's still better than that **** Arcania (no, it's not Gothic, it's a ****). So give it a try... And while you playing it, remember the good ol' times, because this is the last "Gothic-y" game in the series.
Agree with just about everything you say - except the last part. The Risen series by the original developers is the new Gothic in everything but name (even the settings are similar). Risen 1 was great (if a little flawed - especially the last chapter) - now can't wait for Risen 2 later this year!