Posted November 26, 2013
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F4LL0UT
Get Showgunners!
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hedwards
buy Evil Genius
Registered: Nov 2008
From United States
Posted November 26, 2013
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Thought exercise: imagine you got drunk with your dudebros and some of them raped you. Or inserted an eel in your asshole. If you nevar evar get drunk, imagine it happened to a relative who does.
I'm sorry, but if you're foolish enough not to take steps to protect yourself, then you're partially responsible. Rapes wouldn't happen if there were no available victims. You're not going to stop psychopaths from behaving like that, but with education, you can at least make it hard to find victims.
But, is that why women buy those books? I doubt it, they could get the cover image for free if that's what they wanted. It's the content of the book that they're buying. Having Fabio on the cover is just a hint that it's a romance novel.
Post edited November 26, 2013 by hedwards
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F4LL0UT
Get Showgunners!
Registered: Jun 2011
From Poland
Posted November 26, 2013
Not to mention that women would be far more into porn if they were that impressed by muscular bodies. Evan Stone is the porn doppelganger of Fabio and how many women know him? :P
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keeveek
NOPE
Registered: Dec 2009
From Poland
Posted November 26, 2013
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But I think having Fabio on a cover may be a trigger for buying a book for a woman. I don't know, I am interested in many books because they have an interesting (in different ways) cover. It's often disappointing, but well...
I don't like reading book samples in online stores, for example, because for me it's just like reading spoilers for a movie before watching it :P
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But it's a scientific FACT that some people are more likely to be a victim of a crime and by willingly increasing your chances to be a victim, well... You are a pretty dumb and immature person.
Post edited November 26, 2013 by keeveek
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LiquidOxygen80
In the 36 Chmbrs
Registered: Sep 2010
From United States
Posted November 26, 2013
It was mostly a facetious one-off comment, but Fabio's female fans used to be pretty legendary.
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DMTrev
Moon Unit
Registered: Aug 2010
From Canada
Posted November 26, 2013
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Gimme a source or get out.
I'll give you and [url=http://www.bostonglobe.com/business/2013/01/27/women-remain-outsiders-video-game-industry/275JKqy3rFylT7TxgPmO3K/story.html]this as examples of how you're not just wrong, you're staggeringly so.
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babark
Pirate Mullah
Registered: Dec 2010
From Pakistan
Posted November 26, 2013
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I thought I gave a very reasonable example of "balanced portrayl of gender in video games". Having overly sexualised female characters is fine, alright. Can there also be female characters that are not obvious objects of sexual gratification? If it is a game that is mostly about sexual gratification, then perhaps the male characters can also simply be objects of sexual gratification- and I repeat again, there is a difference between being a buff power fantasy for men, and an object of sexual gratification (for men or for women).
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Post edited November 26, 2013 by babark
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keeveek
NOPE
Registered: Dec 2009
From Poland
Posted November 26, 2013
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Since indie gaming blossomed, I haven't seen so many new women in the industry. Maybe it's because there are actually less female programmers, coders and software developers?
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DMTrev
Moon Unit
Registered: Aug 2010
From Canada
Posted November 26, 2013
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http://www.statisticbrain.com/rape-statistics/
Look where the rape happens: more than a third of the time it happens in the victim's own home. More than half of the time, it happens with someone that the woman knows--and presumably trusted to not, you know, rape her. Slut-shaming and blaming the victim is low, but saying that rape would't happen if so many women weren't just asking for it?
Ugh.
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Since indie gaming blossomed, I haven't seen so many new women in the industry. Maybe it's because there are actually less female programmers, coders and software developers?
I mean, sure. But not to that degree.
Post edited November 26, 2013 by DMTrev
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kalirion
Future HFIL King
Registered: Apr 2009
From United States
Posted November 26, 2013
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Yup, Jews were more likely to be victims of the Holocaust. They should've stopped being Jews maybe?
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keeveek
NOPE
Registered: Dec 2009
From Poland
Posted November 26, 2013
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All I've said, even though it doesn't excuse the criminal, it's not reasonable for example to go to to the stadium's sector in the opposite team's colours.
But I guess requesting from people to take care about themselves is too much in this world.
Post edited November 26, 2013 by keeveek
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FREEEEDOOOM!!!!
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Vigilant GOGer
Registered: May 2011
From Australia
Posted November 26, 2013
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Tza
Grumpy Beholder
Registered: Jun 2010
From France
Posted November 26, 2013
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The main idea here isn't "Ah! She dressed like a slut! She deserved it!" but "Stay safe.".
It's all about minimizing the probability of rape by minimizing the factors controlled by the potential victim since the factors controlled by the rapist are just out of control.
How can you minimize the risk of being raped/abused while any ill intentioned sociopathic man or woman could rape/abuse you? Well, you just control your behavior, your appearance, your body language, your frequentation, your circle of friends...
"But we should be free to do whatever we want!", you could tell me. Yeah sure, and I'm all for it. But if you are in a potentially hostile environment, where great people mixes with awful one, where a high alcohol consumption might make you lose your senses... you have to understand that you are knowingly taking risks by doing whatever you want.
So, are "women asking for it"? Absolutely not. But there are scumbags who think so, and all that is asked of you is balancing risks you are taking and able to control, versus rewards.
Post edited November 26, 2013 by Tza
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kalirion
Future HFIL King
Registered: Apr 2009
From United States
Posted November 26, 2013
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Yup, Jews were more likely to be victims of the Holocaust. They should've stopped being Jews maybe?
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