timppu: Long time ago, I almost had my desktop PC fried by a "lightning", but the surge came from the telephone line, not the electric network. So, it actually fried my modem, but my PC also tilted at the same time. Luckily, the PC itself ran fine many years after the incident. Where I lived, it was quite normal that the fixed line telephones would "ring" during lightning storms, meaning there were surges on the telephone line.
The reason for the ringing is most likely related to insufficient shielding and or an improper ground. Whenever you have charged particles moving they will generate a magnetic field and a moving magnetic field will then induce current in cabling. If you have a sufficiently strong field it could do that. Keep in mind that phones are low voltage equipment.
My understanding is that this is usually a problem only if the telephone lines go on poles, not underground. This was the case in my incident too. If you live in a city where all the lines go underground, I think you should be safe.
If they're in the ground then it shouldn't be a problem as that's where the charges are trying to get to. There may be cases where the charge does go up, but for that to even be plausible you'd have to be right at the site of the strike for that to be at all plausible.
One clarification from my memory: the surge doesn't really (usually?) come from an lightning actually hitting the line, but when a storm cloud is "fully loaded", it's electric pulling power packs electrons and shit to the pole phone line hanging below it in the air. So when a lightning strikes from that storm cloud elsewhere and the electric pulling power of the cloud is gone, the surge from the phone line is released. Just from my memory, maybe someone has first-hand experience on it.
There are quite a lot of beliefs related to this. For example, for some reason in SE Asia it seems to be quite usual to believe that when a lightning storm comes, you should switch off your mobile phone, even if you are indoors. The legend claims that a lightning can hit the mobile phone if it is on (especially if it is active). For some reason I haven't heard such warnings elsewhere (not even on official "how to protect yourself in a lightning storm" pages), so I'm sceptical about them.
As for TVs... if you have an actual antenna on the roof of your house, yes it is a good idea to unplug the antenna cord I think.
This is rather complicated, the problem with the idea that lighting is causing this is that it's rather unlikely to be the case. Electricity flows through the path of least resistance to ground and will generally take the power cables which are higher capacity over low voltage gear. The low voltage gear also generally sits lower on the pole for reasons do to worker safety. Any voltage that does travel down the line would be meeting substantially higher resistance from the tiny phone line and when it hits the ground at the house, would then be directed downward to the ground.
Induced current is a much more reasonable explanation, and would be caused by the static in the air during the thunderstorm rather than by the lightning itself. Although whenever you get that sort of pulse of electricity there is an accompanying EMP blast that can also damage equipment or induce those sorts of currents.