Posted September 11, 2010
Bansama,
What you say about the American press only looking to sensationalize a story is very apt. I spent considerable time in Tokyo and very clearly knew I was classed as a 'foreigner'. I didn't have a problem with that as I expected it but friend I have here in the U.S. have asked me questions about Japan in such simplistic terms are to be unexplainable.
To go back to an earlier post that laid all the fault at the women I'd like to believe that. I liked to think I 'knew' about Japan before I went there as I had prepared for it but the subtle differences between the U.S. and Japan, while subtle are very big.
My experience there was that dating was not considered to be worthwhile, and casual dating existed only in 'pink salons'
What you say about the American press only looking to sensationalize a story is very apt. I spent considerable time in Tokyo and very clearly knew I was classed as a 'foreigner'. I didn't have a problem with that as I expected it but friend I have here in the U.S. have asked me questions about Japan in such simplistic terms are to be unexplainable.
To go back to an earlier post that laid all the fault at the women I'd like to believe that. I liked to think I 'knew' about Japan before I went there as I had prepared for it but the subtle differences between the U.S. and Japan, while subtle are very big.
My experience there was that dating was not considered to be worthwhile, and casual dating existed only in 'pink salons'