akwater: Left....
Arms, one on small of her back the other around her neck.....Normally my left hand goes to the small of the back, the right hand placed against the back of her neck (palm towards the neck). The kiss action, is normally, more of a whispered sweet nothings followed by a slight peck on the cheek which normally gets the look of.......... "Why don't you kiss me"........
If it is a dude, it is the handshake back pat thing......... never a hug.
I've always thought of the whole hugging thing as kinda strange........
On a side note how long should a hug last???

CaptainGyro: I have a reputation at work as a guy who hates hugs.I don't actually hate hugs, I think the occasional hug is awesome. I just think excessive hugging ( like friends who hug each other every day) is kinda stupid.
I hope I didn't offend anybody with my super controversial last sentence