Oslin007: Thanks for all the tips, will check em all out! keep em coming if you have any new ideas!
I'll second what PeanutBrittle said...stay away from Pathfinder and especially Shadowrun for a first ever table top RPG. Certainly tke a look at them later, but they're more involved.
I'm going to recommend Savage Worlds. Nice, clean rule set that covers every action set piece that could come up. Dogfights? Big group battles? Car chases? All of that is in there. It's a quick to play game set that moves quickly and is easy to run.
And there are a ton of settings and pre-made campaigns out there. I can't recommend Deadlands Reloaded enough. Weird War II, War of the Dead and Agents of Oblivion are some other settings I've played that were quite a bit of fun.
As a final perk, it's inexpensive. The books, particularly the Explorer's Editions, are very easy on the wallet.