Opoextreme: Well i guess Im kind of asking out of Baldur's Gate 1 & 2, Arcanum, Fallout 1 & 2, and Planescape: Torment whats a good one to start out with, Ive played many rpg's but never really a D&D rpg type. And any other games like that would be cool to.
With the possible exception of Baldur's Gate 1 I think all of the games you mentioned are excellent. You can't go wrong with any of them. Fallout 1 + 2 are on sale this weekend ($3 each), so this would be a great time to get them. The Fallout games are absolute classics in the CRPG genre. As long as you don't mind the post-apocalyptic setting, I highly recommend trying those games.