Qwertyman: The problem is that you played one of the worst multiplayer games in existence.
Maybe so, I can't really tell.
One thing in common that I've seen in a couple of more modern online FPS games, and which I don't necessarily like so much (at least in team games) is how the game underlines who killed who, showing it detailed how you died and by who. I think this is in both CoD: MW3 and TeamFortress2. It is a bit two-edged sword IMHO.
Plusses:
+ If you keep getting killed over and over again by someone, it is of course helpful to you that the game reveals who killed you and where he was when he killed you.
Minuses:
- It is kinda unfair the game does indeed reveal your position to the killed player. He should try to figure it out himself, and how to cope with it.
- Since the game keeps mocking the killed player like that, as if trying to raise rivalry between two players, that could be to the detriment of the teamwork, as the objectives of some teammates may shift from team objectives to retaliating to certain enemy player.
That's just how I feel about it.