Aliasalpha: Because I hate it with a passion. Sitting here for hours waiting for my 2 uni teammates to show for an online meeting. We have a project thats due MONDAY and they've consistently missed the meetings we had scheduled over the last few weeks, it was uni holidays so I didn't expect miracles but out of 3 scheduled meetings I saw one team member ONCE.
As a result the project has had no work done on it and like I said, its due monday so here I am stuck with doing all the fucking work AGAIN.
Does this happen to anyone else or is it just me?
While I do agree that groupwork can be a pain, it can actually also be very stimulating when the group is functioning properly. It looks like your group is as disfunctional as they can get, which indeed always ends up with the person with the highest sense of responsibility doing most/all of the work.
But also, in a way, it's just you. Of course I don't fully know your situation, but most of the time it just takes the right actions of one person to make a group work. When you sense the group is disfunctional, take up the position of the leader. Don't plan on doing everything 'as a group'. Except for brainstorming and planning most things should be done individually. Give people the responsibility on specific subtasks. That way it immediately becomes clear and provable when someone just isn't doing anything. It also improves the productivity of a group by leaps and bounds. (Ok, some tasks are hard to divide into subtasks. However, that just means that working in a group is not the most optimal way of tackling the problem. Your instructor choose the wrong format for the course. Notify him/her of this fact).
I've had some pretty bad experiences with groupwork, but I've had positive ones as well. The positive ones are either with a group of equally competent and motivated individuals (very rare), or with a group where someone takes up the position of a leader. Also remember that in the worst case scenario you can always notify your instructor. If you really did all the work, you should also get all the credit.