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Momo1991: ~laughs~ I do love a man who cooks ;-) Might I suggest fondue? It requires more than a bit of effort but the meal takes time to eat, is perfect for sharing little tidbits and can be adjusted to almost any kind of food that you two enjoy. Of course, three courses consisting of cheese, cooking broth and then chocolate is a lot of work - so maybe just do a dessert course in this style? Women love, love, love chocolate ;-p
Well, she mentioned wanting me to boil crab legs again, so that might be what we do. Still not sure.
We've made German fondue (beer and cheese mix) before and liked it.
We'll just have to see.