sasuke12: Okay I am in.
My Christmas was just crap. Having finished my education while working two jobs and now have a career going after all that struggle, misery and loneliness.
Now that I am nearing my 30s, my parents are pressuring me to find a nice young girl to marry. Its because they want grand kids and want to pass on their genetic legacy. They never cared what I want or what makes me happy.
Problem is females of my generation especially the quality ones who happen to be "marriage material" almost always have boyfriends OR are engaged to someone.
The ones in their late 20s who are single happen to be single mothers, sluts, damaged goods with a lot of past relationship emotional baggage or are mentally unstable and on anti-depressant pills.
Who would have thought that finding a nice girl in her late 20s would be this hard.
The girls in their early to mid 20s don't want to settle down. In their own words they want to "have fun and party and get wasted before marrying some boring nice, decent guy like me"
Some of these women have had the audacity to tell me to wait until these party animals have wasted away their youth "partying and getting laid with strangers and then they would be happy to marry a nice, decent guy like me and keep them company"
DAMMIT. To make things worse, my parents blame me for not being capable enough to find a nice girl to marry. Calling me cursed, dumb virgin and a waste of potential.
I have this sinking feeling it's you, not the lack of "worthy" girls. Try being a little less judging and do some inward reflection, and maybe the right one will come along.