Sachys: As a genuine insomniac, you dont have insomnia, you are just having trouble sleeping. There is a massive difference.
Try cutting down on the weed!
Cannabis is actually prescribed for insomnia (try an
indica blend instead of
sativa). If you drink a lot of coffee you may need to have a (small) cup before bed. (Otherwise the caffeine withdrawal will make you anxious and unable to rest.) I often have a cup of tea before bed. Caffeine takes an hour or so to be absorbed through the gut, so bear that in mind. Alcohol knocks out the mind but does not grant sleep; when it wears off in the early morning (for normal nocturnal sleepers) typically the person wakes feeling more tired than before they went to bed, so it is to be avoided in large quantities.
I highly recommend the first sleep expert, the late Dr Dement, and his excellent book,
The Promise of Sleep.
I know of at least two people (one I married) who cannot "fall" asleep. They must empty their mind, just like meditation, in order to calmly descend into heavier stages of sleep.
As others have noted, blue light is particularly bad. Exercise is useful, though less so at the point of sleep. As noted earlier, the human circadian cycle is about 24½ hours, and is reset by (bright) daylight. (If you travel to a time zone East, go outside early in the new morning and do some light exercise and this will reset your brain to the new zone. West will be a little more difficult, but the same process.) White noise can help. Recent research (on 18 people!!11!) found that rocking from side-to-side increased quantity & quality of lighter sleep states (no effect on REM), as well as speeding a person to sleep. So buy a hammock!
C19th Britain —
i.e., before the advent of electric light, now lost to most in the developed world — people used to have two sleeps overnight, with a small break in between (for reading, snacking, gardening, horizontal jogging, etc.). My mother complains that she cannot sleep through the night; I remind her that this is normal for her (octogenarian) age. Just nap when you can.
Our bedroom is blacked out. Usually no other lights, apart from the teevee-cum-monitor or (rarely) a bedside reading lamp, when it is turned on (for me to read or play a game, or for us to watch a movie, etc.). I usually read if I can't sleep, though I have fallen asleep many times whilst playing a game (this is quite easy
ludo decubito :). The worst case is when I am too tired to read, which is fortunately not too often.
Of course, there are always chores to do, so — after failing to nod off for a protracted period — I will get up and prepare whatever on the agenda that hasn't been done.
Being irritable is worse than tired, since being tired can be ameliorated by working slowly, whereas being grumpy just makes more work (like throwing a pen across the room because the ink splutters, then having to pick up the pieces and clean the walls that it bounced off). I have many times been so sleep-deprived I can barely recall the next step in a well-known process, but still manage to complete whatever task is required.