ddickinson: Thank you. I also feel bad for worrying my partner a little. She woke up during the night and saw that I was no in bed - I was just sitting in the conservatory in thinking in the dark. She got a little worried that something was wrong, as that is what I tend to do when I have a lot on my mind, and although I share everything with her, I do sometimes inadvertently keep things to myself, which makes her worry if I am okay. We ended up talking for a bit before going back to bed. It's nothing she does not know, and we have talked about it before, as my partner has noticed some things regarding my sister-in-law as well.

But I am sure it will be okay, these things just take time for the person to heal. I just need to keep a close eye on her, just to make sure she is not going to do something silly. I can't begin to understand what she must feel like and what she is going through, losing a baby is always hard, and it effect people in many different ways.

But thank you for the offer of someone else to talk to. It really means a lot.

ElTerprise: Good morning *big hug* :)

Well i made a rather insensitive remark (i thought of it as a joke) when replying to Judas but i don't want to reopen that matter...

ddickinson: Okay, sorry for mentioning it.

moonshineshadow: *big hug* I can understand that you might feel a bit bad about worrying your partner, but I guess she would be a lot more worried if you would not talk to her :-)

And yeah, I can't even begin to imagine how your sister-in-law is feeling. It must be horrible. I hope things will get better for her.

moonshineshadow: Yeah. Let's more to another topic.

So... I am thinking about this friends stuff... since the pending invites are increasing... but I don't want to really deal with all this stuff now... but if feels so unpolite to wait with it for more than four weeks until I am back from my holidays...

moonshineshadow: Yeah. Let's more to another topic.

So... I am thinking about this friends stuff... since the pending invites are increasing... but I don't want to really deal with all this stuff now... but if feels so unpolite to wait with it for more than four weeks until I am back from my holidays...

ddickinson: I do not mean to keep things from her, if she asks then I tell her, but sometimes I just don't volunteer things as I do not wish to worry her. This attitude upset her a bit when I was attacked, as she was worried I was not coping with it all too well, which I guess was true in a way, but I was fine, I was just trying to keep it all to myself to stop her and my family worrying about me all the time. Since then I have gotten better at being more forthcoming with things like this with her, but last night I just did not want to wake her to talk and just needed some time to clear my mind. I am an open book with my partner, I do not think I have any real secrets from her or things i would not tell her.

*more big thank you hugs*

ddickinson: I thought you had decided to just decline all the invitations?

ElTerprise: You think of leaving the Zero-Friends club? I thought you declined the invitations..

moonshineshadow: Yeah. I can understand. I also tend to keep things to myself. But on the other hand I can also understand your partner, I bet she would would have welcomed you waking her to talk, right?

moonshineshadow: After the introduction of this friend stuff and the new account system the the website, I have not declined them, they are all pending... because on one side I don't really want to deal with all this friend stuff, but on the other side I don't really want to make my wishlist that public.
I was never really comfortable with it, that is why I did not have a wikipage for a long time... but the wiki was not well known so not many would go see it...

moonshineshadow: After the introduction of this friend stuff and the new account system the the website, I have not declined them, they are all pending... because on one side I don't really want to deal with all this friend stuff, but on the other side I don't really want to make my wishlist that public.
I was never really comfortable with it, that is why I did not have a wikipage for a long time... but the wiki was not well known so not many would go see it...

ElTerprise: And i'm not entirely confident of having my wishlist public here at the moment due to Magog...

moonshineshadow: But if you are not comfortable with having it public to everyone because of Magog... why the heck did you post in his thread to be included in the tracking?

ElTerprise: I thought it was a good idea - i looked into after you linked it here - but i think about leaving it now...still haven't decided though

moonshineshadow: You can always just sent a message to mrkgnao to exclude you again from the tracking ;-)

LaPtiteBete: **Enjoying the birds singing... u__u**
Good morning everyone !! :-)
It's a quiet, peaceful (despite lots of work to do), sunny and warm, Wednesday morning !
**Big peaceful hugs, lazy waves, and huge coffees**
How are you doing ? :)