I was reading GoG CoC and found this:

2. WE DON'T TOLERATE:

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2.13. Posting pornography, inappropriate or offensive content...and NSFW content
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Ban thyself, GoG.

Disclaimer: this is a joke.

----eh

And even those are considered to be games by several people. A game does not have to be a challenge - it needs afaik only some interactivity and should be enjoyable. I do agree that several kinetic VNs don't have much of that interactivity but several other VNs also offer choices which will influence the ongoing story .... walking sims as well do still have the gameplay element of exploring. When they started with "Dear Esther" the term "walking sim" was meant as an insult but now it has become its own genre. If you don't want to stress yourself out, don't want to spend too much time but still want to enjoy a story with some exploration and examination ... walking sims are exactly what you might need.

"FUN" fact: in some USA states where porn can be viewed by 21 years olds or older but you can (as in the majority of countries) work in every field or do most things (including signing contracts, marry, buy estates, etc.) if you're 18 or older, a pornstar could commit a minor infraction if she/he buys/views a video of herself from the movie(s) she/he's in!

So that only involves an actual porn film. If we're talking about a film where real human beings are recorded fornicating, than yes that could be an issue. But if the actress was only doing VA for a fictional character (100% of these games) then it isn't even the same. It's equivalent to me moaning for some game. Sexual sounds don't equal sex or you'd have teens going to jail on TikTok right now or the ASMR girls on Twitch and Youtube.

if anything, that's the best kind

The loopholes in sexual law/content will never fail to amuse me. The definition of what "porn" is doesn't seem to account for all of the obviously sexual media content that's viewed or made by teenagers.

These TikTok ASMR girls giving their microphones blowjobs know what they're doing, and their teenage audiences know what the'yre watching, I'll tell you that much.

Not that I care, it's just a little bit silly to observe.

Lets not forget the fact atleast in the U.S all the tv programs with sex scenes that has aired on tv channels, and the shows aren't rated any higher then tv-14 ..I am not against such stuff in media persay but my point is it seems like for America atleast if the sex scenes are somehow deemed ''relevant to the plot'' or ''Tasteful enough'' its not classed as even remotely ...

To me its just wierd for series to have that and be rated so low or atleast used to be weird given how few people watch tv anymore and mostly stream stuff anymore

One could argue that this is a form of selective censorship. Like you say, there are movie/tv sex scenes that are even more intense/explicit than many "porn" videos, but they are considered artistic media. Why? Because they added filler content around the sex scenes? It's just absurd, lol. This is getting away from the point of the thread though so I won't dig any deeper.

Depends on local "obscenity" laws I suppose. Can a sound be obscene? For me, yes, if an image can (it's not obvious, it's culturally determined and very fluid and debatable).
My point still stands: to be strict with others more than with oneself is risking a paradox
Moreover, is really a sex (I suppose enjoyed and enjoyable sex!) scenes the most traumatising or disquieting media one can run into unwillingly? I think not. And speacking about the ones that eerily stick in one's memory the most, I bet they could even be very mild graphically but quite suggestive because of the context (think to a disturbing revelation, a symbolic camera macro, an offscreen killing being told abruptly, etc.)
But it would be better to talk about it in a separate post

Twitch, Kick and YouTube are used worldwide. If the sexual ASMR sound is not considered obscene on any of those platforms than it is not obscene. Your personal tastes don't count. You can disapprove of something, but that doesn't make it obscene in the eyes of international law. And with that, good day.

You are opinionated. And that may be my taste, but you are, definitely. CU