I h!!!ave a gameped that I cannot seem to use with this game. Do I need a different driver? It works fine for all my other game like elderv scrolls etc....so wtf !! N stuff

This game is game pad exclusive use of Xinput. I think your game pad is Directinput correspondence.
Freeware as x360ce is used to make a game pad of Directinput input as Xinput.
First please assign a button by x360ce and save data. Please copy generated x360ce.ini and xinput1_3.dll in Folder with an executable file of a game(binaries_x86 folder When it was installed using galaxy.)
When the data saved in xinput1_4.dll is used when being useless, it sometimes works.This way can also be used in other games.(This reply is using an English translation system.)