Anyone know of an active community for this game? The home site isnt worth discussing, Steam is pretty similar to here.
Even reddit seems slow with posts or some goofball posting endless memes.

I do not use steam but I used reddit mostly - I say, it's probably the most active atm but you need to turn on the option to "delete" all the memes from your view. And yes, I agree, the amount of memes on reddit is, sadly, sometimes too much for me. :/

Try nexusmods or moddb. it's not exactly thriving but the mod community is at least involved with the game and mostly active.