I must be the most inept person on this board, but can anyone point me to the actual download site for the 1.04 patch? Some say they have it but I've not been able to find.

go to your account here on GOG.
find Cyberpunk 2077 in your games
There are patches ate the bottom of the list

Patch (1.03 to 1.04) 1.04 1 MB
Patch (1.03 to 1.04) 1.04 600 MB
GOG GALAXY only patch (1.03 to 1.04) 1.04 1 MB
GOG GALAXY only patch (1.03 to 1.04) 1.04 600 MB

choose the one you need, none of them worked for me.

in my case i only have 120GB nvme m.2 hard drive and it wont update for me at all says not enough space.

so i have to DL the entire game again to my big hard drive and install it that way, what a pain in the keister.

I have 200gb to spare on my hd and it gets stuck "installing the patch" at 92% everytime, I left it for 12 hours at 92% and still a no go? I have tried a variety of things to get it to work. I refuse to delete and reinstall on my 5mb down internet.

yeah i feel your pain
i reinstalled 1.03 and updated to 1.04 through Galaxy the new version that lets you allocate temp space on a different drive it worked great but the "patch" to 1.04 was some 45 gigs for me. Took a while but it is all working now. Glad Galaxy fixed this problem.

BUT WHERE ARE THH LINKS ITS ONLY NEWS