Hey, thank you for your answer! We definitly considered your information. I also posted in the Icewind Dale Forum. We did go with Icewind Dale, because we thought that the more combat intensive style of Icewind Dale would fit the Co-Op Mode more. Because of our total lack of D&D Knowledge, some of the earlier fights were very messy, but after like about one and a half week we are now @the start of the six chapter.
Just if you are interested which party we took, allthough this is kind of OFFTOPIC here, because its with Icewind Dale, maybe it is interesting for you:
Barbarian (me)
Skald(Bard Kit) (me)
Clreic (me)
totemic druid (she)
Ranger (she)
Dragon-Breath Mage (she) (dont know the english name for it, we play on german :>')
After the second chapter we were so frustrated because of all the traps and chest we could not loot. We researched a bit and the result was: Our Humans could not Dual/Multi Class into a Thief because our only Human was the Totemic Druid...
Well we decided to kick the Skald(we felt like he had the least impact and i kinda screw up his stats and gave him only 13 intelligence) and created a new LVL1 Thief/Mage Multi Class Character. In the beginning of the third chapter it was funny, because he run arround with 7 HP and for the first few hours his job was to hide as best as possible :D
He catch up very nice on the experience and i put all the Thief Points into Lockpick and Disarm Traps and so far he has done a very good job. So i guess, if anyone of you is a new player and kind of screwed his start party, dont be scared to just delete one character and add a new one to your party. It definitly is worth it! (Dont know, if this is possible in Soloplay).
About the multiplayer-mode in Generel in the Enhanced Edition: If you play in Local Area Network, it kind of works fine, sometimes you have random drops, but it was not frustrating and you can easily drop and just rejoin. Nothing Lost! (Just mid-fight it kind of sucks..). But trying to play over the internet is just ... no. It doesnt work at all. :(
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Like 2 years ago i started to play Baldurs Gate and very early in the beginning you come to a town with a big castle. There is a mage who wants to kill you. And he is very effective in it. I had/have no idea about the D&D system and this mage just single handily killed me all over again. I had absolulty no clue what to do (maybe just run away?) and yeah... i just stoped playing it. Guess i will restart it soon i singleplayer with the new "combatknowledge" of Icewind Dale :)