Daering: Normal people call woman - "woman". Period. How they identity themselves is their own right and their own business and they can keep it to themselves, not forsing this to others.
Game lacking flexibility is one thing, forsing politics where they don't belong is other thing.
"Normal people" respect other people's identity and names! If the person is called
Daering and uses "he," "she" or "they," the another shall not call you
Trash (or something worse) and address by "it." You recklessly inputting onto a person your own biases/labels or judging a book by the cover
is 100% forcing what does not belong there and not normal in any way. This is not politcis and never was, it's common sense of calling
Daering as
Daering,—The name you by own words "force to others and shall keep to yourself"—Not calling as
Trash.
There's no "problem" with the proposal of the topic per se, is decent, shall be done; The prime so-call "problem" is outside, some persons here have a "perception bug" because aren't native and have a crazy hard time to understand proper concepts not present in their own languages and not translatable, like, let's say, not well-translatable are more grammatical tenses (most languages do around 3 total) or articles (the majority of languages have none). English is not German nor Bulgarian nor Romanian, go ever it, do not equal a kangaroo to a snail. Having an epicene pronoun is not a common thing and in many regards English is sort of an oddity in the Indo-European family, as well as the fact that technically grammatically words in English lack any gender unlike German. It was done a long time ago not by us, in that the language's direction is quite clearly drifting towards the same boat like Georgian and that's totally okay. If Georgian can, what are you, worse than a smaller language, seriously? Don't be absurd: If Georgian can, we can, we are not worse.
Some of you adorably don't see the gigantic glitch right in your very own sentences:
"You" the word is plural grammatically, can be simulationsly plural or singular by meaning, the older singular only informal form "thou" has died out (unlike in my native, we haven't lost out "thou" and we use a capital letter for our formal singular "You" unlike informal non-capital "you"), as the result when we write "you" in English, no way to know if this is for a group or a single person, the only path is from the context. So how is that different from "they?" No much, the same tendency and well-established too.