Hehe. Its not that simple though is it?
Not taking into account the value of being single, the value of a job, a family, relationships CAN risk that. (Not always though, but life can be a cruel mistress!)

Some people value their pride and self-respect to an insane degree (like myself! HAHA!), and anything that can devalue that honestly could tear a man apart.
(even if it is irrational, but people aren't all that rational by nature are they! ;) )

The first time I got a girl I was18. I regret to this day not having the confidence I needed in school. All my friends started getting girls when they were 12.

When you eat ice cream, does it "make your life better" ?

Doggy style

As a certain UnderDog once said: "Thumbs up, way up!" ^_^

Personally, I enjoy watching my woman bent over with her hair to the side, her ass in the air and [too x-rated]. Just love it how... Wait, that was what the [too x-rated] bit was for ^_~

I also love to do it in front of a mirror... Hmm... That isn't quite a position is it? How about when she does it in front of the bathroom mirror and sink, while applying lipstick and I'm behind her... Mmmm...

Okay, better stop now. Right now, my fiance is half way around the world... -_-

I think you weren't waiting for real answers, but:

I've seen one TV documentary on the same subject, and there they tried to "lessen" the sexual drive of the female with some kind of closeness/intimacy exercises by the couple. Ie. all kinds of cuddling was approved, but not sexual acts. That way the oversexual person kinda learned that fulfilling intimacy can be non-sexual too.

I'm not saying that necessarily always works, depends what is the real reason for hypersexuality. If it is related mostly to hormones, trying to make one "less sexual" is like trying to change a hormonally frigid person into a hypersexual one (without medication).

And yeah, I've also been in a situation (in another relationship) where I was the one wanting less sex, and it was not a nice situation to me, quite irritating actually. I guess it was one of the reasons we finally broke up.

Even currently, it is my gf who 95% of the time is the one making the initiative. So far it hasn't been a problem because 94% of the time I willingly comply. The good news is that I personally find my gf very sexy, so it doesn't take her that much effort to arouse me, unless I am very stressed out for some reason (e.g. work, or DRM).

Well it actually is related to hormones, hypersexuality seems to even appear in her family every generation for better or worse. So yeah, without medication there's nothing much that can be done, and medication would be like treating it using an a-bomb. Thanks for the concern thou.

Well, they are pretty happy because of that and I don't know about you guys, but I feel the urge to hook up with other girls, I'm not saying that I do, but I feel it.

You mean other than the one you have?

I was with a girl from 15 years old until we were 23, never was with anyone else. One of the things that broke us up was me being like OMG I NEED TO FUCK AT LEAST ONE OTHER GIRL BEFORE I DIE. All my guy friends told me I was being stupid but I didn't listen to them

After we broke up I sowed some wild oats, as they say, and let me tell ya... not really worth it, just like they said. As long as you are sexually compatible and happy with the person you've got it as good as you will ever get it. Random flings are mostly awkward and your next girlfriend might be a cold fish in the sack.

That is what I meant.

Here it is exactly the opposite. All my guy friends tell me that I gotta fuck a lot of different girls before I settle down with one.

I don't know how it is in your countries, but in mine when you have sex with different girls, it's rather... boring. First sex with a girl is just simply standard. At least you hook up with some kinky girl you can't expect anything more.

I'm with my gf for 6 years now. We tried a lot of different (but rather not weird) stuff. I'd hate to go back with "standard" sex...

oh, and "drunk" sex (which is common if you prefer switching partners) is beyond disgusting to me.

Well you are from Brazil :-P But the common mindset over here seems to be kind of similar, even thou not amongst my friend (for I am very careful about who I truly call a friend.) Oh and I've had my first sex in 18 as well, so ... meh. It's far better than in 12 at any rate, you view it from a different perspective.

To each his own. I think it's exciting and fun to experience different women with different bodies, sexual skills and so on, but the best sex I've had so far has been within a more long-term relationship. For me it's much about being sexually compatible and growing together over time.

I guess... some of you may have been hoping I would post here.

Some of you might imagine I'd post something along the lines of "any position is fine, as long as it's sex."

Well, I actually prefer being more creative, different positions are better depending on the different body types and what each person likes, and context.

If anyone wants more info, I can message you, I don't feel like the public forums are an acceptable place for the amount of detail I'd have to go into to explain.

But honestly, context is very important - some positions I find more enjoyable with different people, than others.

I think for the most part though, I'm not interested in being on bottom with a female, unless a prostate stimulating device is involved.