Posted January 30, 2013

Bodkin
Red Right Hand
Registered: Nov 2009
From Czech Republic

Lone3wolf
Kai Grandmaster
Registered: Mar 2009
From United Kingdom

Cormoran
Vigilant GOGer
Registered: May 2011
From Australia

TEgotisticalTwat
Registered: May 2011
From United Kingdom

Crosmando
chrono commando
Registered: Jan 2012
From Australia

Trilarion
New User
Registered: Jul 2010
From Germany

Bad Hair Day
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Registered: Dec 2012
From Other
Posted January 30, 2013

Why would anyone want to be in that kind of situation?
Let me amend that. hedwards did step in when the name calling started and folks started wishing harm upon me. Still, a few more friends would have been nice.
Post edited January 30, 2013 by tinyE

Crosmando
chrono commando
Registered: Jan 2012
From Australia
Posted January 30, 2013
True. I know here in Aus there's an outrageous amount of tax loopholes and concessions built into the law for military people and their families, which I think is wrong.

orcishgamer
Mad and Green
Registered: Jun 2010
From United States
Posted January 30, 2013
Correct, it's considered the child's money and the parents don't normally have the right to alter it. In many states there is mandatory wage garnishment and the state takes a minor cut. Those states have often been the target of claims of greed and perhaps rightfully so. In my state I'm able to pay my ex-wife directly, but only because we both consent. We do have to have a child support order on file with the courts however.
There needs to be a better solution to this, yes, there are exemptions (states have different names for reasons to not go by the recommended amount) but in practice I don't use any so I don't know how reticent a judge may be to sign an order including them.
There needs to be a better solution to this, yes, there are exemptions (states have different names for reasons to not go by the recommended amount) but in practice I don't use any so I don't know how reticent a judge may be to sign an order including them.

anjohl
Disconnected
Registered: Jul 2009
From Canada

Bad Hair Day
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Posted January 30, 2013

orcishgamer
Mad and Green
Registered: Jun 2010
From United States
Posted January 30, 2013

Regardless, yeah it sucks, she's not obligated to maximize her income or pursue a more lucrative profession, but pretty much people don't like their exes that much, no matter what they did with the child support many exes would have a problem with it. I don't mind child support most months. I always hated spousal support (as if changing the name from alimony makes it less hateful), I loathe the very idea.
There are cases where I think people have been bullied into paying too much child support. There are cases where I think the tables skew too high for disparate incomes (the max child support in my state is ridiculous), I don't think children need enough in child support to rent their own condo or home, but they probably do need around as much as most people are paying.


Alright, forgive me, we probably agree on quite a bit of stuff, I guess I was reacting to a perceived tone of "man vs. woman" more than the content.
Note, though, some of those things you mentioned are actually the patriarchy deciding that men will die, because they, being in power, are not the ones that get to die. They get to stay back with all the woman who will have less suitors their own age as a result.
But at any rate, it shouldn't be about men vs. women. We are doing pretty well with the woman's revolution, let's keep at that, but it's time to start valuing men's lives too. Men are way more likely to suicide, become criminals, etc. and much of it is due to our media and society. I don't want to take away anything that women have, I'm just looking at some of it and saying, "Gee, you know that's a pretty neat idea, we'd like that too."
Post edited January 30, 2013 by orcishgamer

bevinator
Yep.
Registered: Mar 2011
From United States
Posted January 30, 2013
Strangely enough, conscription is actually super-important to keeping us OUT of stupid wars. Since we currently have an all-recruited army, the public doesn't really care when kids come home in boxes, because the kids volunteered. There is therefore less accountability and we're a lot more likely to play World Police now than in the 1970s. In some ways, I think having a peacetime draft could actually be a good thing, because the public would then be personally invested in something like Afghanistan, rather than it just being something to be ignored on the news. If we got rid of the draft entirely, the only things to discourage military involvement would be economic or moral reasons, which have a lot less traction than "my son is going over there."

Trilarion
New User
Registered: Jul 2010
From Germany
Posted January 30, 2013
You mean they should get more normal pay rise instead?

pseudonarne
c[_] Coffee
Registered: Jul 2012
From United States
Posted January 30, 2013


is pun yes?
Post edited January 30, 2013 by pseudonarne